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writes:Ok, i am 25 male and the girl i met this 20 yr old girl about a month ago rite before leaving school for the thanksgiving holidays. We share a muttual freind which is also a girl. the first time we met we talked at my apt for a couple hours and whatched a movie. she wound up staying the night, with no sex involved. only a few great kisses.Over the thanksgiving holidays we talked everyday on the phone and i reallly kinda fell for this girl and had the same impression that she felt the same. we made plans to go see the twighlight movie when we got back to school. everything was great until we returned back to school and it just seems like we talk less and less. although she did come stay the night one other time. she keeps saying that she wants to hangout, but never makes time.. everytime i ask her to do something she is busy with freinds and i understand that and she is a tad of a party girl.. should i even presue this any further.. any advice is great at this point, bc im really kinda confused on wat to do with the situation. I really like the girl but im stuck Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 December 2009):
It sounds to me like she's more interested in leading her own party life right now. I think you need to speak to her and say that you really like her and would love to take things further, but you can see she is drifting away a bit and you need to know if she's really interested. Then make a decision after that and see what happens.
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