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writes: I have this friend and I tell her she's wonderful and a great friend when she is feeling down or depressed.But as soon as someone else, someone that means nothing tells her what I have been saying all along all of a sudden that person is the best and she walks around all happy all day..and it just irks me.I told her about this book that she might like and she laughed and said she wasn't interested. But her friend from work told her to read it so then she went out and bought it!She will always hang out with me and as soon as someone else even gives her attention she will ditch me. And then she feels all important and brags when she hangs out with this certain crowd that just uses her and talks behind her back- I tried to tell her about this, but she just accused me of being jealous. I mean they say jump and she's all ready in the air for them and all they do is backstab her and use her and yet she still struggles to get in good with them.....It just really hurts sometimes and makes me feel useless or like a spec of nothing to her...ugh sorry done ranting...Does anyone else know someone like this? Why do people act like this?
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reader, Athleticmind  +, writes (16 December 2009):
Sounds like she may not really be your real friend. Perhaps, she just hangs around with you when she's bored.
She knows that you will take the trouble to hang with her, and she feeds off of your desires to be with her and support her, only to ditch you when as better fish swims along into her view. My advice: find a better friend. Life is short; why waste it with people that don't respect you
and value you for who you are.
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