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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a horrible situation - not bad compared to most people's problems but it's horrible.I just need an outsiders perspective before I continue making a fool of myself.I'm insanely in love with my friend. He doesn't know how I feel. He's getting a divorce at the moment and has already started dating again. It's getting to the point where I can't even be around here without wanting to grab him. I won't cause any problems but here's the weird thing, when we work together I catch him staring at me and he rings me at least once a day when I'm off and it's such a shame because we have soooo much in common but it's literally hurting my heart feeling like this - what's the best thing to do? I'm not a horrible person but this is driving me crazy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): You need to either tell him how you feel or break it off. It is keeping you from having a real relationship.
I can't tell you what to do. I'm currently in a relationship with a married women going through a divorce and was friends with her before we started sleeping together. She was also dating another guy already, too. I'm a little ashamed but I used my position as a friend to break them up (the other guy not the marriage) before I made my move. I would never done anything if I thought the marriage was salvagable.
I never thought I would be in this situation but sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants.
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