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writes:My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a good christain but we keep meeting and phoning each other every day. Last week he kiss me and i kissed him back and i also told that i am in love with and he loves me 2 but i don't wan't to be in a realtionship because i know it is wrong according to the Word of God. i know he thinks i am his GF which i don't want to be, just don't know what to do i realy need some advicei keep telling hime its wrong but i don't thing he understand that and i don't how to explain to him and i don't realy want to lose him.
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reader, ppllzzx +, writes (30 December 2009):
there are some people out there called to life of singleness, but not everyone, and ive been told that if it is you then you will be happy to live that way.
it doesnt sound like you though!!
God doesnt want you to be alone if you dont want to be. explain your beleifs and dont let him pressure you into sex or compranmising your beliefs. pray about it and see what God says
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Hi Jerusalem,
I am also born again, married with 3 children. I was wandering why won't you want a relationship with that guy, if you think you love him and he loves you, adn he is descent, why not giving it a try?
Being born again doesnt stop you from having a boyfriend, just dont have sex before marriage, but you are not there yet, Why dont you speak to him, and explain your beliefs, if he is serious about you, then he won't be that bothered about it, but he is just after sex, then that will make him run a mile.
I hope that helps
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 I'm a little confused. Did you become a nun? Because otherwise I'm not quite sure what religion you are in that says you can't be in a relationship... is he of another religion or something?
Premarital sex is usually the big no-no, and I'm sure that if this man is familiar with your lifestyle, he'll be okay with not going any farther than you're comfortable or allowed.
Unless you're not allowed to be married, I'm sure you're able to date, sweetness!! Good luck!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (16 December 2009):
I'm a bit lost here... Do you think Mary and Joseph were just friends? Which church is this that says having a boyfriend is against the word of God? All you have to do to stick to the Word is avoid sex before marriage. Kissing and holding hands is fine for a girl your age. But sex before marriage (for you specifically) is what you should avoid. Enjoy your relationship.
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