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*lanket
writes:I work at a hospital as a RN. There is a physician that I find so attractive. He is always touching and rubbing my arms, shoulders, hair, and hands. He is around 59 years old and I am only 30. I can't stop thinking about him. I heard he flirts around with everybody but I have never seen it. I know when he is around me, he remembers everything I tell him, follows me around my unit, and makes it his business to tell me he wanted to see me. I know he is married so I haven't made a move. I saw him yesterday peeping at me out of a patient's room. When he noticed, he started laughing and walked away really fast (kinda weird but sexy). I wanna know if he just likes me, just flirting, or is he trying to just have sex with me? I need to get over with this crush before I get myself in trouble-but how?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): i know what you mean...i've done it...i've made the move on a married co-worker. now everytime we work together, i feel stupid. i mean, he flirted first, but so subtly that only i noticed. so i started thinkin he did this to all the females and i was the only one who flirted back and rather unsubtly. needless to say, we had sex a few times. he is never going to leave his wife and even if he did, i wouldn't think he is someone who'd commit again..esp. right off the bat.
im still going through this and i feel like i love him and that makes it so much worse but i'm glad i stopped it when i did because if it hurts this much now, imagine how bad it would be later.
the way i did it? i ask about his family...his daughter and son...his wife. it works for me. my backup plan for if it didn't work was to try to meet his wife at a work function. there would be no way i could mess with someone's husband if i knew his wife..
hope this helps and good luck to you :)
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reader, Blanket +, writes (8 October 2008):
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reader, Jenniferdz7 +, writes (7 October 2008):
Well, yea if he is married then you should leave it alone. but to me it sounds like he just wants sex. Has he talked to you about his wife or anything? Or dose he completly ignore it when he is around you.
Unfortunaly you kinda have to say "enough, you are married" stuff like that for you to get over the crush.
Maybe that is what others have had to say and that is why you don't see him behaving this way to your coworkers.
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