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If my ex said he wanted to be my best friend, why doesn't he talk to me at all?

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Question - (7 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2008)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to best friends....i broke up with him almost 2 months ago, and he wont talk to me. I asked if he was mad at me, and he said no. But if he says he wanted to be my best friend, why do you think he doesnt talk to me? Its been over 3 plus weeks since we had a conversation. Any help/advice will be thanked....xoxo Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008):

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Sorry, i was wondering.... i wouldnt go back to him though. I see your point, he doesnt have any reason to talk to me anyways.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008):

you broke up with him...

so when you think about it why would he feel obligated to still talk to you? rather then asking more from him try offering, maybe then he would see a reason...

Now that your with some one you shouldn't be the type of girl that gets stuck between an ex and a new guy, its unfair to everyone involved.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008):

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I thought not talking to him for a bit would help out. But i think i was wrong, i know i've moved on. Has he? He knows im with some one else....could that be it too?

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A female reader, kutie0712 United States +, writes (7 October 2008):

Well alot of guys are like that. I am in the same position at the moment exept its a bit more confusing as my brother and my ex are best friends so he is at my house all the time. All you need to do is stay calm and tell him that you want to be friends and if you trust him then tell him that. Stay calm and he will come around.

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