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writes: Hay everybody, I need advice because I really don't know what to think anymore. There's a guy in my class (let's call him Mark) who acts really weird. I'm not sure if he hates me or he likes me. We're both 18 years old. I like him because he's intelligent, honest and knows a lot of things, but i can't approve his arrogant and rude behaviour. I'm not in love with him or anything like that, but all situation is really confusing. I can't be relaxed at school when he's around (and that's like 70% of time) He stares at me (or in my direction) every hour in the school. I've been noticed that for a million times. It's just too obvious. For example if he's sitting before me, he turns back every 2 minuts, look at me and when i look back in his direction, he turns away. It's weird.I'm not sure if he likes me or not. I mean, i'm quite pretty but not his kind of girl. He likes skinny girls with black or blonde hair, but i have normal body and red hair. Once or twice he said i'm beautiful, but he was drunk or just excited about something. He knows i have a crush on one guy and he seems happy when this guy let me down and become jealous when i'm talking about him. He can be very rude to me too. Few months ago I was asking him about his dad who has a music store, because i needed a job. He said his dad doesn't need new workers there and he( Mark) doesn't want to be around me the whole summer. It was really mean and he had hurt my feelings. Mark's friend said he thinks i'm silly and that i act ridiculous sometimes. He's very talkative but almost everytime i say something, he ignores me or he's making a jokes from my words. We talk very rare, like 10 senteces a week. This situation is weird. Can somebody please tell me what's going on in his head? Guys, what do you think? How can I improve our weird relationship? I would be happy of any answer. It's too confusing!
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Luck Honey, Men can be strange at this age aspecially if there quite popular at school. You may find your attracted to him for his looks and his bad behavior. He's the Bad boy! I was the same.
You can not change the way you feel and I would not say you should repress it But...
If you try to make the first move he might show you up in front of his friends and you would ruin the relationship you have so far.
Dont block him out but dont try to change anything yet. Once you are out of School and he is no longer near his friends he might become more social with you.
Plus Having an ordanary body is fine, great infact, and Red hair is dying out so you are more indavidual then a lot of poeple Be proud of it!!!!
HOPE IVE HELPED GOOD LUCK
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