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writes:I'm 17 and I'm bi. I haven't really done a lot with girls but this Friday my good friend is coming to spend the night her and we are planning on doing stuff with each other. I'm kinda nervous. Does anyone have advice on what it will be like? and if theres stuff we should do that would make everything easier?? ps I'm not a virgin and I'm sexually active, she's not, she hasn't done anything.. I hope someone can help!!! thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 Agree with the previous poster. As a guy, I've learnt that it doesn't pay to be too eager, because it leads to stress when expectations aren't fulfilled. Go with the flow. If something happens, it will be great. If nothing happens, there is always next time to look forward to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): I say "go for it"! I didn't have my first bi experience until I was 21, so I don't know it that makes a difference or not, but I completely enjoyed it. You will probably be more comfortable with the situation because you're sexually active. She is not, however, so don't force yourself on her. I would suggest that you just play it cool for the first part of the evening, do regular girl things and have fun. Maybe you could paint eachother's nails and throw in flirty things, maybe the way you rub her feet. You could play dress up and watch eachother change clothes. Tell her how sexy she looks when she's in her bra and panties. There are ways to stimulate the occassion, just have fun with it and don't expect anything. If you are expecting it to happen then there will be an uncomfortable feeling in the air and chances are, it won't happen. Good luck and have fun!
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