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writes:my friend is the same age as me and we have been close friends for about four or five years.he recently developed a problem with cocaine. i wanted to offer him my support and friendship and help him get off the drugs, so after he agreed that he wanted to quit i have kept in regular contact.last saturday he invited me round and i was out clubbing so i couldnt go, then he suggested i come over after i was done clubbing, i thought it was stupid because i wast going to be done untill around two so i sugested maybe another time.when i got home at 2:15 i text him to tell him i was home ok, after a few messages the suggestion that he came round came up.i should never have invited him over but i did, i feel so stupid, like i should have seen it comming but..he was soon at my house and when he arrived i was ready for bed,i had taken my make up off and i was wearing a thick jumper because it was cold. we spoke for a while about mutual friends ect and smoked a cigarette. kinda out of no where i felt really really tierd and like i really had to lie down so i went up stairs and turned the t.v on. i sat on my bed and i started to not be able to feel my hands, then my legs and feet, then my whole boady.i just felt like i was asleep but i was aware of everything around me.my friend hugged me to sleep and kept asking if i was okay, to which i would just mumor back to, then after a short time he started to try and kiss me, but i was so out of it there was nothing i could do, i was trying to say 'stop it', but i have no idea what he thought i was saying, after trying to kiss me for a while he started to take my bottoms off and i was trying to hit him but i couldnt lift my arms, i tryed to kick but after that he tryed to perform oral sex on me, i was trying to move when he realised and he let me go and i rolled over trying to get up but i just felt so heavy i coulnt move, i wanted my bottoms,i just remember trying to reach for them and not being able to. now i had my back to him and he was trying to insert his penis into me, there was nothing i could do, i wanted to cry and scream but nothing was happernig, after he had been penitarating me for a while i suddenly got an overwellming sence of anger and i punched him and pushed him away, he turned and said to me ' whats the matter, you were fine a minute ago?'- as if he didnt even know what he was doing to me, or that i hadnt agreed. he then lifted my head with both hands looked right into my eyes and left.hes tryed to contact me since but ive ignored it..i just want to kno- did i lead him on by being in my p.js when he came round?- did he think i was his booty call because i said he could come over so late??- is it because hes on drugs that he tought that i said he could have said with me??-why was i so tierd?? did he drug me??i would really appricate anything anyone has to say, i just dont kno what to do because he was my friend and maybe i did something to make him think that what he was doing was ok.thanx ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): hi
i was the one who posted the question
i just wanted to say thank you to everyone who left a comment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): If you only had a cigarette then I don't see how he could've drugged you. Like the other poster said, someone could've slipped something in your drink at the clubs. I don't understand why you didn't tell him to go home when you went up to your room? Some guys may confuse this as an invite to meet you in bed...? But you have my sympathy...what a horrible experience, I hope you are doing o.k.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Did you drink anything that he came into contact with? Who's cigarette did you smoke? If his, it's possible it was laced with coke. Was it home rolled cigarette? You aren't specific in the way that he could have drugged you.
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 I know one drug which called Rohypnol or date rape drug. You have quite similar symptoms. It's enough somebody give it in a drink.
Try that:
http://www.4woman.gov/FAQ/rohypnol.htm
http://www.emergency.com/roofies.htm
Talk with a psychologist or doctor as Fade878 has been said. You can't completely save your problems only by yourself.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Maybe someone at the club drugged you.
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