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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

His mother doesn't approve of me and I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I want to get married. He is egyptian muslim and i am white muslim. His mother is racist and hates british girls (muslim or not). He is very close to her as his father died at a young age and she ...

I think he is my soulmate but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I need to know his feelings about me. This man and I have developed a really strong friendship. In fact, I would say he is probably my very best friend. We met by circumstance last year and immediately, I felt this strange cosmic connection like he ...

My lover and me are both trapped in loveless marriages and are hopelessly in love with each other...and now I think I'm pregnant with his baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if I could get advice any would be appreciated. Where to start... I have been with my current Partner since I was 18 years old we met in college. We became best friends and fell in love we know we are soul mates... this i...

Is it legal to date an ex teacher?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...

FWB relationship is going haywire because I wouldn't sleep with his best friend. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - I have a best friend who I care about dearly. He's my friends with benefits though. We've had this relationship for 7 months now. I developed feelings for him a long the way but he insisted that he doesn't want a relationship and that he's incapable ...

Am I just hoping for too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Both me and the man in question look in our thirties/ years younger (not being vain,it is just what people say) and believe me there have been so many fireworks going on between us. but we are both very professional about our roles etc. I just want...

How can I sit with my mum and tell her I have been lying for a year??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, hes 36 and I'm 20. I love him more than anything. We had our up and downs but we are always there for each other and find a way to work our differences. He knows my family and they all love him, ...

Professor is offensive with a severe attitude problem....but I'm becoming obsessed with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - A Little Introduction to my problem: I have this professor at college. A little detail------ he's in his early 40's, and an obnoxious *******. On one hand, he's an academic genius, extremely knowledgeable on his subject. His style of teaching can ...

Cheated on my husband and am riddled with guilt but do you think this other man loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - hi i am married to a wonderful man for the past 23 years and now have cheated on him for the very first time. it is hard as i am riddled with guilt.i have been seeing a friend of ours for almost a year before we called it off.our friend is also ...

I need to end a 4 year affair! Need advice please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hello everyone... I'm looking for advice on how to stop an affair with a married guy. I am a single 24 year old female. He is 36 and married :( We've been having an affair since 2007, by the way, we work together! We both try really hard to stay ...

I don't want this but I have feelings for her!

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19 July 2011 (F) - I have a like a friend who is straight and now is trying to become a solid christian. I've liked her alot as more than a friend for going on 2 years and I've tried to distance myself. Honestly, we both have because I think she knows somewhat. So, we ...

I like my best friend's brother! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Ok so I guess I'll start by saying that I really like my best friends brother. He's 2 years older that my . Me and my friend have been friends for seven years which means I've known him for seven years and this is the first time it hit me like ...

I'd like to date him, but my mother says he'd a bad influence!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Teenage girl confused here. I started working with this guy who goes to my school. He's going to be a senior in high school and we've been mayjorly flirting. Even our boss tells us to stop flirting. Everyone at work thinks we're dating. ...

Is there a way we can be together without sneaking out of my house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend want to hang out more but neither of our parents approve of our relationship so anyone have any suggestions on how we could? he lives like 10 miles from me so its not like we can walk, but he has a car. He lives in a little ...

I'm like a lovesick teenager over this married woman! Help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

15 July 2011 (M) - I'm a single guy in my 40's and am extremely love sick, as silly as it may sound. I feel like a teenager with the feelings I have for someone, who is married, so this person is unattainable. We have known each other for several months and saw a...

I am attracted to my cousin, she hasn't given me an answer but she hasn't said no either....where do I take it from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - I have been attracted to my cousin for years now and have actually talked to her about it. She says i am a good looking guy and would date me in a heartbeat but since we are cousins we cant. She said she would think about sex but has never given me ...

My ex bf wants us to have some fun and make it our little secret so my Low sex drive Fiance don't find out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - ok well im back with another dilema :( my ex boyfriend (not my bby daddy) has been talking to me. he was always a great friend but when we were together we had sex once and thats all. we stayed in touch after we broke up.he was always a better ...

Still in love with my ex, but she's getting married in August!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - This is a bit long and I apologize in advance for that. My ex girlfriend is getting married to a guy she's been with for two years now. She was my first love and although I've had other girlfriends after her, I still can't stop thinking about her. ...

I have a crush on my teacher, who is also my step-uncle, and my friend text him to tell him! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Okay so my dad he divorced my mom 8 years ago and well...he married a woman last month but they've been dating for like 7 years. Her younger brother is my science teacher at school. I didn't know at first. I knew it when I saw him at Helen's ...

Should I talk to my friend's boyfriend to see if he feels the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school I met my best friend. I've never been closer with anyone in my life, she knows everything there is to know about me. She trusts me more than anyone, and I trust her. Soon after we became friends ...

Scared my boyfriend's parents won't me because of my parents divorce!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My bf of 3 years had decided to tell his parents about me and he plans to introduce me to his family. He has already told them about me and my family situation. My parents are divorced for about 3 years now and that is a problem for his parents. ...

I'm in love with my friend's girlfriend and she's giving me the impression that she loves me too. Could this be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - so im in love with my friends girlfriends. and to make it clear im not doing anything to break them up i don't want to ok. right so i told this girl that i liked her and that i had really strong feelings for her. but what im wondering is doe...

He has a girlfriend but he's so irresistible I just can't help myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (?) - Hi everyone, after a year of this problem growing, i feel i can't quite fix this and need some advice! 2 and a half years ago i moved in with a guy, i've always considered him my flatmate even though we have an intimate relationship, we...

Have there been students who have married their teachers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

6 July 2011 (F) - Hello, my question is: have there been students who have married their teachers? (by the way, Im 15 years old, and my teacher whom I have a crush on is 30. He went out of the country to get a masters degree, but we remain in contact.) do you think ...

Him or them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - Help. I'm in a real dilemma - I've been seeing a man I really care for - he's a bit of a jack the lad and can be unreliable at times, but I love and care for him all the same! The thing is - my parents are very against the relationship (as he had a...

What should I do about my crush on my teacher? I don't want my mom to find out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - We had a young foreign teacher in our school. He's 12 years older than me. He didn't teach us. But everyday I went and talked with himHe's so handsome and smart. He came to our house for dinners and in the tea times.we are family friends. Even he ...

My new boyfriend is 6 years younger than me.....his mum is only 10 years older than me......is this morally wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Ive fallen head over heels for a guy who is 6 years younger than me. Ive just turned 28 and he is 21 almost 22. We are both crazy about each other. I am worried that this is morrally wrong. His mum is only 10 years older than me. And she wants to ...

She told me she was pregnant and I felt my heart shatter into pieces!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I have badly fallen for my professor, (spare me the lecture, i've heard it all). I've liked my professor for 2 years, and felt a deep connection with her the first time I met her, she began teaching me and although I didn't think it was possible ...

I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - VERY strange situation, I have asked numerous people for advice and they are all just as baffled as I am. So at my job, there is a girl who has been coming in for about 2 years now. We began talking a little over a year ago, exchanged numbers and ...

Devastated after going though his phone ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on ...

I didn't think a crush would go this far!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - when i was 14 and my cousin was 15 we kissed and felt attracted to eachother..even when i was little i had a crush on him but i never thought it would go this far.i know its wrong and our familly would disapprove.i dont know how to handle the ...

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...

How do I tell my husband I am in love with his brother and want to be with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - I am in love with my husbands brother and now my husband wants to be a woman. We have decided upon divorce as i do not want to be with a woman and he once transitioned will want to be with a man. This is apparently somthing hes supressed for 11 of ...

How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...