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writes:so im in love with my friends girlfriends. and to make it clear im not doing anything to break them up i don't want to ok.right so i told this girl that i liked her and that i had really strong feelings for her. but what im wondering is does she like me back?we speak online and text just about everyday. she messages back really quickly, she use to come to me with relationship problems with my friend and she still does despite my feelings for her she comes to me for advice not her boyfriend even if its not about him like she is low on confidence atm and shes asked me instead of him for my advice. when i told her that i liked her she said awww thats sweet and when i said i wish things were different she said i wish they were too which to me i got the impression that she meant her not being with my friend cause she has feelings for him. we talk really well we can talk about anything with each other and she does ask me and talk to me more that her bf. she also asked me for my number a few weeks ago and we do text each other just about all the time.what is she telling me or is it all in my head?
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reader, van1llabeeen87  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 Nope. You are in the 'friend zone'. Sorry. Trust me though, it's better that way. You don't want to date a girl that would be willing to leave/cheat on her man to be with you because that would mean that she likely has some personal issues and is not ready for a loving relationship and will do the same thing to you. Anyway, how much do you value your friendship with your friend? If it's a lot, I suggest you back away from the girlfriend now and stop talking to her about her relationship problems-she needs to speak with her boyfriend about them; not you. How would you feel if you were in your friends' shoes? Would you want your girlfriend going to one of your friends with all of your guys' problems instead of discussing and working them out with you??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your comments i really appreciate it
and ampersand i told her my true feelings for her on two seperate days i told her i wouldn't bring them up again unless she asks me something about them and she aske me that she didn't want it to awkward up our friendship and it hasn't just like i told her.
also i know its nthing but last night she put "sweet dreams x" at the end of our convo but i didn't say it back and tonight she put ":) night xx" also she came online to talk to me as i asked her if she was on and she said ill come on for a bit and that abit turned out to be over an hour. its probably nothing but its just some additional info for you guys to work with
thanks again
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