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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should I be ticked hubby didn't say I love you after I said it to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - Hubby of 5 years and I spent a lovely weekend together. Left the kids with his mom and took a romantic weekend for ourselves. It was fun and passionate until..... I told him "I love you." He didn't say it back because he doesn't want it to be...

He doesn't want children but I want one of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I feel like ive wasted my time , my boyfriend ( of 4 month) just blurted out he doesnt want kids .We havent talked about having any or any anytime soon. i dont know why he just said it , he already has 2 ( pre teen )but i always wanted one and he ...

Listen to friends/family or make my own decision regarding ex girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

27 February 2018 (M) - I am struggling and have fallen into a deep depression. I dated someone for over a year. We had our issues and we both struggled with depression and other issues off an on, her more so than me. Eventually we had a fight that boiled over and she ran ...

I need insight and advice on coping with my mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I don't even know where to start... I just want to know if I'm crazy and overreacting or a horrible daughter. And what I can do to fix things or make things better, or at least regain my sanity. So the most recent event is that I got an am...

I don't understand his behaviour.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. I once got married and it already got annuled. My bf now is undergoing annulment. We've kniwn each other since we were i college but it never became us because of wrong timing. Everytime he'd be single, id have ...

How to convince my parents to let me date this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, first of all, I'll provide some information about myself. I am 19 years old and I'm in my second semester in University. I live on campus during the weekday and I'm home during the weekend with my parents. (Also, bear in mind, moving ...

My dad is a nasty drunk, his mom is deaf... How can I combine both our lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I have been speaking to this guy for a while, we have recently made it official. He met my parents the other day, and my father, got really very drunk (he is a drunk, we’ve tried so many times to get him to stop but he just won’t) I am now worried ...

How can I change my attitude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts I want to ask on how I can change my outlook and co dependency in life. I am very insecure - although on the outside I am put together - degreed - attractive- thin- middle class pay - my insecurities eat me up. I haven’t analyzed...

My trust is in shreds and I don’t know how to move forward in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do about my life and my relationship and I need some help and advice. So I have been with my partner for almost 5 years now. The first two years we're challenging for us, I found messages, images etc. on his phone ( I know I...

Am I in the wrong or not with regard to my situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Hi all. Im in deep need of advice to see if im in the wrong or not on my situation. Ive been with my guy for almost 6 yrs now. When I first met him, he was a drinker and a weed smoker. And thru the years he hasnt stopped either the drinking or the ...

How can I manage the balance between my relationship with sister and my love life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - I am in a 6 months into a new relationship. We go out on dates pretty often and have even discussed potential out of town trips. I have a sister who isn’t single but her relationship is very unsteady. Whenever she and her mate argue or are feuding ...

Are we wrong for seeing each other? Or is it just a complex situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - My dad had been going out with this girl, I met her friend's son, and instantly developed a crush on him which carried on through the years. My dad ended up dumping the girl he was with and getting with her friend, which was the mother of the boy I ...

I want my parents to allow me to date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi all, I'll just start off by giving a little information about myself. I am 19 years old and just started my second semester in university. I come from a Chinese family where my parents are protective and always seem quite paranoid whenever I go ...

My husband is my mother’s suspect because he’s a recovering addict!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - My husband is a recovering addict. We live with my family at the moment and yesterday my mom wanted me to check the pockets of my husbands jeans because she found that she’s missing 4 pills. This is the 3rd time in the past couple months that she...

How do I deal with my very difficult father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - My father is emotionally distant and is never respectful of me and my mother in public.As a father, He has never attended any of school events, has never allowed me to bring home friends, was emotionally unavailable all through my childhood. I ...

I want to start a business but struggle with anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - Im writing this today because I am turning 25 and I'm a failure. I so badly want to be a productive and sensible adult but I'm just a big child. I've failed in so many areas of my life it's laughable. I have no career, no super, I finally managed to ...

My husband doesn't understand how important my sister is to me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My husband recently lost his job. I told my sister immediately. My husband is now angry at me and said I should have asked if he wants me to make it public. I told him he cannot control me and that I share everything with my sister and also that my ...

Toxic relationship with my mother and my family have decided to completely ignore me since I don´t live with them anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - I need advice on a problem that is making me miserable, and it´s that my family are completely ignoring me and my mother was all that I had left but she is neglecting our relationship. This is not a new event, this has been going on since I was a ...

Will I ever meet anyone or will I be alone forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - I’m a 29 year old single Mum to a beautiful 2 year old daughter. I split with her dad shortly after she was born, so I have been single for about 2 years. The first year I was happy being single and wanted to concentrate on raising my daughter. The ...

Am I asking to much from men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - Am I asking to much from a man? Hello I have been single for two years and in my early thirties - long story short I have a mother that is like poison with her mouth “when will you find a guy” - “can you have a child in ur late thirties” - she ...

He loves me but wants space? What does it mean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

10 February 2018 (F) - I have been dating a man I met 6 months ago. His wife cheated on him and now lives with a new partner but they had only just stopped sharing the marital home just before we met. He treated me like gold, told me I was the woman of his dreams and t...

How do I approach my very religious and conservative parents about my clothes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

10 February 2018 (F) - Hello! I wrote in about my parents before and I updated what their problem was and I am having another issue. This one is actual clothes. My parents, especially my mother, are really worried I’ll end up re-doing my whole wardrobe since I got all ...

I'm tired of my sister, her obsession at finding a partner and the fact that she's constantly blaming me for her woes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

10 February 2018 (F) - My sister is angry with me and is using emotional blackmail, or at least try to make me feel guilty. Ever since we were kids she was obsessed with finding a bf and later on a husband. Sadly, even though she was always focused on this part of ...

I'm pregnant with my first cousin's baby

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - I'm pregnant with my first cousin's baby and i'm going to birth the baby but i'm worried. Doctor says my baby is fine but i'm still worried. My cousin is scared and we both can't tell our families because they're really strict but now they know tha...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

7 February 2018 (F) - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2476 days ago

7 February 2018 (M) - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

He thinks I am sick and twisted when I ask about hi past, we have no interesting conversation, its just boring.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

7 February 2018 (F) - Hi ,I have been dating this guy for 4 wks seeing him 2-3 times a wk .. meals out , walks in park etc but I feel bored already because he has told me not to ask about the past and he never asks me anything so our conversation is pretty standard ...

Shouldn't she be washing her hands after using the toilet? Do I ask her about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

6 February 2018 (M) - I recently noticed that a relative of mine has stopped washing her hands after she poops. (Thin bathroom door and I can hear her flush after being in there for a long time and then she immediately comes out.) I know she hates hand sanitizer so I'm...

My Mum is saying we shouldn't go to my brother's wedding due to a misunderstanding over outfits.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

6 February 2018 (F) - Hi Agony people. Need a bit of help here. My brother is due to get married during the summer. The bride's mum bought her outfit a few weeks ago. The groom's mum bought her last week in the same shop. Both outfits are completely different. The groom ...

What else besides texting my daughter should I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - I just witnessed my pregnant daughters husband playing footsies with my other daughter under the table! I texted my single daughter and told her to Stop what she was doing with her sisters husband now. It did not stop completely however. The ...

I don’t really want to go on this vacation with my dad and his girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid. I am 24 and need some advice... I’m due to go on a trip in june, with my dad and his girlfriend...tickets have been paid for and now I’m not really wanting to go...I’ll be stuck on a yacht for 10 days, their friends are going bu...

How do I leave the family business without creating drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

3 February 2018 (M) - I work for my family business (we take care of people's dogs). I would like to quit my family's business and go work for another company that has nothing to do with dogs. I am getting extremely burned-out with working with dogs to the point that I ...

How do I establish healthy boundaries with my sister without risking another estrangement

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

3 February 2018 (F) - Hi I need some advice on a tough situation. I will start from the beginning. I am 30 and my sister is 36. She didn't speak to me for 12 years which I thought was because of a really silly argument. in actual fact i found out it was because my mothe...

Why is my sister in law making herself accessible to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

2 February 2018 (M) - So I've been married for 10 years now, why all of a sudden my wife's sister is starting to change with doors open and making sure I hear her orgasm at night when she masterbates? I Love my wife but damn her sister doin this stuff, Please Help....

I cant connect to him on a deeper, emotional level.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

1 February 2018 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 18 months (46) after a string of failed relationships over the last few years. Before that I was bringing up my child as a single parent so didnt bother dating. My bf is hard working, loyal, trustworthy and ...

My parents are very controlling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

1 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, first of all sorry in advance if this might come off as a rant. So, I'm 19 years old and just started university last September. Recently, I'm not exactly sure why but suddenly, I'm finding that my parents thinking have become more odd ...