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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I want my own life, but I do want my baby to know it's father!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6771 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Im having a baby very soon. The baby's dad left me as soon I fell pregnant and is now happily attached to a new woman. When he left he told me i should find someone new to bring up the baby and that he didnt want any contact with it. Now he has chan...

I'm scared I may have HPV now or even be pregnant!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Okay im turning 16 june 26th and i really need help with a problem i have...My aunt was messin around with her friends husband(a 36 year old man)...so i hear about this guy for awhile then i meet him...well on my aunts birthday he calls and ask me ...

I'm not comfortable with the attention I'm getting from my husband's father!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6779 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I am happily married for 6 years now with 2 boys. Recently, I just realized that my father in-law has bad intention towards me. i.e. touching and hugging me. We are Muslims and such gesture is not our culture, but as a family, we only hug each ...

Should I let my 17 year old daughter date a 31 year old man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My daughter is a mature 17 with excellent grades and a good lifestyle. I've never had to deal with any problems with friends, drugs or school, and she is going to be an adult soon. She tells me all of her problems, but recently, she has told me ...

Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town? My fiancee was furious! Please advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town. I have 3 children by this man and i took them to stay at a hotel with their grandparents and aunts and cousins. I havent seen these people in 7 years. So i sat with them a ...

Helping him get over an ex, but now his not communicating, is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6781 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - My mind feels scrambled!!!. I have been helping my male friend get over breaking-up with his ex but have found myself falling for him. I think he feels he same way about me. We have enjoyed cuddling each other very much but this has recently ...

Could he snatch my babies if they have his last name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6768 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a new problem. Im due to hace twins next week. The babies' dad and I split up when I first became pregnant and he has someone new now. I decided I would bring them up myself, I am a mature woman with a good income and these are my ...

Parents wont let me see my new guy... Please help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - im in loove with this fela ive known for half year.he has girlfriend but has now left her for me.we get together on nites out an meet then.we want to become serious and have a relationship.as im only 17 and he is older by a few years i ran it past ...

Why is my sister so mean to my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - ok i am getting so annoyed with my sister. i have been with my bf for nine months now and just starting a week ago my sister(she is my twin) keeps saying "your bf is ugly" "he is fat" "he has big ears" and none of those are true mostly the "fat" one ...

Should I let my 39 hear old brother know how I feel about him dating a sixteen year old?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - My older brother is 39 and is seeing a 16 year old girl. He doesnt see anything wrong with it but it is weirding me out! It doesnt seem right. Should I ignore my feelings of disgust and push them aside or should I let him know my feelings? He ...

We just want to get away from Dad's anger issues, but he's trying to persude Mum it's wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Hi. My family is about to move away from my dad because of his anger issues and we all can't wait to finally get away! But my dad is trying to put things in her head saying "oh if you move it's going to be a bad idea because she will have boys over ...

My mom controls everything I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6782 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Hi. Im 16 years old and my mum is a controlling, interfering bitch. Everything I achieve for myself, she uses to show me off to her snobby friends, like I'm some kind of perfect child prodigy. I'm allowed to go out, but if I get up to anything...

How can i keep my affair a secret from my sister and my boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6774 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - hi i am 21 and livin with my sister whos married in london.i ve been having a secret sexual realationship with my sisters husband and he tells me that he likes me just for sex and i too like him to have sex with me only.i have a boyfriend also and ...

Mum has crossed the line. She puts me down and snoops in my stuff!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6784 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I am a seventeen year old girl. I am getting really fed up with my mum! She is constantly on at me about stupid things (apparently I'm lazy (I do all the housework), fat (bit of a podgy stomach but I am happy with it, why can't she be?). She is...

What can I do to help my sister get away from the loser she's with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6786 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - My younger sister (19) has a new baby with a guy that is a very bad seed.. no job no, high school diploma, no license (cause he lost it due to well - bad things)And has been in jail many many times... oh and then there is the cheating on her and the ...

Family hates my BF, but he makes me happy. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6787 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm probably getting back with my ex. The thing that's holding me back is my family hate him. My mum hates him because I run up the phone bill and act differently when I have a bf, and she has heard bad things about him from my brother who has frie...

Worried about Sis and her boyfriend... He has a temper!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6788 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm not sure wht to think of my sister's relationship to her bf. They seem to love each other, yet there are a few flaws I worry about. My sister has been with her bf for 9 months and they are already talking about kids and marriage! She's only 16! ...

His mom is giving me pickup hints for her son! What does it all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6783 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy's mom starts dropping hints on how to get him to notice you and telling you what he likes and stuff like that? See, the woman who cuts my hair works with another woman, who is the mother of a sixteen-yea...

Everyone seemed to forget my birthday. It was crap.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6788 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - Some may think this selfish, but hell, my birthday today was crap. It seemed like everyone had forgotten. We are going on holiday this week but still. The house wasn't the same as normally, my mother got my cake today. I dunno it just seemed poor. ...

My stepdad would rather have sex with me than with my mum!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Dear cupid I'm an 18 yr old girl and my problem is that my stepdad raped me a week ago, so my mom kicked me out. I enjoyed having sex with him and he has come to me twice( I'm living in my friend's apartment) and we've had an amazing time but it's...

I know that Sis is cheating on her boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6791 days ago

20 May 2006 (F) - This is a tough question so I thought I would post it here. My sister, who was divorced a couple of years ago, has been seeing a very nice man for a couple of years. I do not think she appreciates what a nice guy he is. She does not live in this...

Is our love dead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6791 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i've been with my fiance almost 5 years. No relationship is perfect but for 3 years we had as close to perfect as it can get. Yes we had our little arguments and issues over things, but nothing that we didnt come to a compromise on, and neit...

How to go pubilic about my new relationship after the break up of my marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, First i must say that i have always found your column very helpful and i can relate to some of the advice given. Well here is my problem, six months ago i came out of a marriage that i was more a convenience than a wife, i had looked up to m...

Reconciling with my girlfriend, what do we tell her family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - I'm working on trying to reconcile with my girlfriend whom I have dated for the past year. We both are divorced and have kids. When she broke up with me, she told her family that she was no longer seeing me. What can she/we say to the family that ...

I'm in love with my cousin, but how do we tell the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - well, me and my boyfriend, who is also my 1st cousin, have been together well over a year now, totally in love - the full works. At first I was sceptical; hmm hes my cousin, but then i realised, I love him, I want to spend the rest of my life with ...

I slept with my boyfriend's brother and cant keep my hands off of him!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i am 23 and boy friend is24 we have been together for3 yaers he is got a brother who is currently staying with us who i had a chemistry and lkast week after a drink when my boyfriend was a sleep we had sex in my bedroom and now we cant keep our ...

family,studies and boyfriend are really getting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6794 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - eugh god just everything is getting to me atm: 1) a member of my familly that im really close to is dying 2) ive turned 18 now so my dad's stopped making his CSA payments which means that moneys really tight atm as our annual incomes only a...

I want to be there for my brother's but need advice on how to handle mum and step-dad to be, please help. (long but worth it)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Sorry that this is long. please read Hi, my names Tim, Im 25. My situation is very very complicated but I will try and explain it the best way I can.Im not sure if Its a relationship problem or what but I need help,Hope someone can unde...

My sister's boyfriend as taken over her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6793 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Possessive or Insecure?? Dear Cupid, My sister has been currently dating a Libian young guy for around four months now. She use to have such a gorgeous look to her when she first started dating him but now she wears no make up and baggy shirts...

How can I make a move on a married man I really like?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6767 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - Listen guys hey how are you? Well I have another problem I fancy one of the Dads at my daughter's nursery, he is really nice, good looking, friendly and I really like him. And he is funny too. I would like to make the first move on to him the only ...

Why has she dumped me when she is carrying my child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

15 May 2006 (M) - Hi me and my partner have found out that shes pregnant We found out 2 weeks ago she is 8 and a half weeks. We were ok before hand an also we got on really well, we were good together but now she said that she does not want to see me any more an ...

My gran is sick and if I don't visit soon, I'm worried I'll never see her again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

14 May 2006 (F) - My grandma is very sick and i know that she'll die soon. shes been in hospital for ages and is very weak. we didnt know them very well when me and my brothr were young because they live far away and my dad (whose parents they are, but whom we dont ...

Is it possible to be your brothers best friend once hes married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6796 days ago

14 May 2006 (F) - Me and my brother (Im his sister) used to be best friends, but hes been married now for about a year. We don't really talk like we used to. Is it still possible for me and my brother to best friends? is his marriage now more important or mea...

My mom wants to know everything that is happening in my life... and I don't like that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - Hiya, I'm a female teenager, who is experiancing exams, boyfriends, kisses, mates, and firsts all at once. My mum is always trying to nose in on what I'm doing, and often tries to ask me about the gossip. But I don't want to share my whole life with ...

How do I make him understand..that he needs a better job to support me and the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - me and my husband are having big financial problems and he often blames me for not having enough money. when i say big i mean big. we're constantly getting eviction notices from our landlord! getting diconnection notices from our utility bills! he ...

My boyfriends sister hates me... And I wish he could stop being so sweet to his sister because of this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriends sister hates me more than anything. shes 23 and im 20 and my boyfriend is 19. When we started dating everything was nice then around 6months we found out that she was writing all this hateful stuff about me in her livejournal. then 1 ...

Husband won't let my off-the-rails son move back in...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6798 days ago

12 May 2006 (F) - i am married my husband is the stepfather to my child he is 23 a real hand full he steals cloths from us lies is in trouble with the courts for all sorts things is on dope he is now at his lowest and is living in a night shellter depressed and has ...

Is my sisters marriage more important to her relationship with me, her brother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6796 days ago

12 May 2006 (M) - Is my sisters marriage more important to her relationship with me, her brother? I hate to sound selfish but this question has been bothering me for a while. Me and my sister were really close before she got married, but now its like I don'...

I hate my younger sister and I am worried this will affect our future. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6798 days ago

12 May 2006 (M) - I've been asking people in my college if they have a brother or a sister and everyone has at least one sibling that is the same gender as them (e.g. male with older/younger brother)whilst I have one younger sister, no brothers (I'm male). Personally ...

He hurt me before, but I love him so much. Should I give it another try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - The ultimate dream situation happened to me last night; The bf who dumped me months ago called me, and pretty much told me he still loves me. We hadn't spoken for ages, then i got this phonecall out of the blue saying he saw me walk by at work today ...

Spouse or parents... who do you love "more" deeply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6798 days ago

11 May 2006 (M) - Who do you love more deeply, your spouse or your parents?...

Should I use my dads inheritance to help my girlfriend out of her financial problems??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

11 May 2006 (M) - okay here it goes, my girlfriend's mom and step dad (well he was the moms boyfriend for like 16 years and they never got married so thats what they called him "dad") are seperating so they had to move out togther in some low imcome apartments. ...

I can't talk to my husband, I need some advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6774 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - i cant talk to my husband because he is to judgementle he thinks he knows everythang and when i talk to him he gets mad he says its me getting mad yes i do but not untill he does, and he hates my family he talks about them all the time and he says ...

I want to marry this guy, but my parents don't exactly approve. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6801 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - i am in love with this i have know for 8yrs. we both want to get married to each other. his family is fine with the same, but mine is a bit upset, firstly because my sister had a love marriage and even though the guy is nice, but he really doesnt ...

I'm 35, married but I still feel hurt because my father is so emotionally distant. How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6801 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - My dad has always been emotionally distant from me. When I got married it got even worst, almost like I wasn't his daughter anymore. He never comes around to see my kids or asks me how I am doing. Everytime I try to reach out to him he pulls away, ...

I like a friend's sister, but don't think he'll approve, can I change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - I know this girl, she's really cute and nice and she likes me too. But there's a problem: she's my good friend's sister and I don't think he'll allow me to go out with her. What can I do to change his mind?...

I left my ex and went with the nice guy, then the ex almost won again! Did I do right?

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9 May 2006 (F) - hi just wonderin if u could give me some advice? i met my ex 3 years ago it was fine 4 the first few months then the rows started...we rowed most of the time we both didnt trust each other! he had a bad temper on him i knew where it come frm as he ...

I like my ex wifes half sister...can I do anything about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6802 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - Im feeling confused,i have a female friend who i spend alot of time with as we both have a lot in common,the problem is ,1- she is 23 and im 36,2-she is my exwifes half sister.How do i find out if she wants to be more than mates with out upsetting ...

My son likes to have food fights and no punishment makes him stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I am a father-of-three from Birmingham, who's been married for 20 years. My 16-year-old son has recently been in trouble at school over allegations of having 'food fights'; he's just been suspended for a week for having one in the canteen....

My mother said she heard people in our bedroom when she came home. Should I believe her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - My name is "Sue". i have been dating an older man, "Bob" for a year and a half. My mother recently moved in with us because of some money issues. She hates us dating, because he is older than i am. I love him more than anything and would trust him ...