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writes: hi i am 21 and livin with my sister whos married in london.i ve been having a secret sexual realationship with my sisters husband and he tells me that he likes me just for sex and i too like him to have sex with me only.i have a boyfriend also and he is unaware of my secret relationship.i like the way my brother in law fulfills my desires and we want to carry it on without being caught,because i dont want to create problems for my sister.tell me how can we keep it a secrets and carry on with our relationship as long as i am in london?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): I agree with everyone!
You are a TOTAL JERK!!!
Get out of that house and get a life!!!
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reader, camille  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 You are acting in a totally immature, selfish, cowardly, cruel way just because you are getting a buzz from the secrecy. Perhaps you even enjoy getting one over on your sister while her husband get his leg over you. She has kindly taken you into her home and this is how you repay her. Her husband is a low life but you, you are her blood relative. This will only end up in tears and it is you who will lose out big time. You will have no family, no boyfriend, no respect from anyone and be seen for what you are. She'll be better off without the pair of you. He's only using you for sex. You clearly have no self respect or respect for your sister. You're about to find out what that feels like.... Do you both stupidly think you won't get caught out? Where do you see it going? How do you see this ending? If you have any shred of decency left in your cold heart you'd pack your bags, get out of your sister's life forever and perhaps tell the truth to save her from wasting any more time with such a waste of space. Shame on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): You are wrong, how the hell can you do that to your sister, I wouldn't even to that to a stranger, get out of this affair while you still can, it wont only hurt your sister and your boyfriend but your entire family, think about your whole family hating you. Think Hard.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (26 May 2006):
 everybody is unaware of this relationship except you and this lying cheating scumbag hubby of your poor sister's! mmmmmm and now the entire readership of dearcupid. Must say, it isn't going to stay secret for long if you cannot keep it to yourself.
You are a low life and you are scum. He is as bad as you.
Go find somewhere else to ask for help. Very little will be forthcoming from here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): You know, after thinking back on this post. I say you should continue to sleep with her husband, but tell your sister so she can get a divorce with the cheating bastard, and tell your boyfriend, so he can find someone better.
Hey didn't I see you on Jerry the other day? 8/
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): er what i say is get a life and get ya own husband, dont steel ya sisters! god u fool. i cant even be bothered waisting anymore time typing advise to u. leave him and do something decent for once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): Wow,you have a cheek. Do you really expect people here to support what you and that no good of a husband? Dream on. You know what you have to do but I just don't know why you started this in the first place. Are you jealous of your sister? Are you not getting enough attention form your boyfriend? Sort yourself out girl. You and her husband should be ashamed of yourselves.ASHAMED.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): Wow,you have a cheek. Do you really expect people here to support what you and that no good of a husband? Dream on. You know what you have to do but I just don't know why you started this in the first place. Are you jealous of your sister? Are you not getting enough attention form your boyfriend? Sort yourself out girl. You and her husband should be ashamed of yourselves.ASHAMED.
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (26 May 2006):
 Are you for real?
I can't believe that you are asking us how to keep the fact you are shagging your sister's husband a secret!
I hope she finds out, kicks your backside and dumps her no good cheating husband, she's better off without the pair of you. Your about to lose a boyfriend and your sister, she will find out, hope her husband was worth it!
Whatever happened to Loyalty?
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (26 May 2006):
 If you don't want to create problems for your sister, why are you sleeping with her husband?
Your poor, poor boyfriend and sister.
If you want to have some decency and do the right thing, tell your boyfriend, move out from your sisters home and stop sleeping with her husband.
I, too, like the other people who have posted, am shocked that you think this website is to help people who are trying to cheat, lie and deceive the people they are meant to love. This website is to help people who have REAL problems and want to do the right thing by themselves and the people they care about.
This website is not people who want to have the best of both worlds with no concern or feeling for people they are meant to care about like their own family or their partners.
Have you ever thought how you would feel if the situation was reversed? Imagine if you were nice enough to allow your sister to live with you and your husband and then she repaid you by sleeping with your man. How do you think your boyfriend would feel if he knew? Doesn't he deserve more?
I think its time you got some guts and took responsibility for your actions.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 Wow ok, i can't beleave what i just read. Do you not care about your boyfriend and your sister? She is your sister for crying out loud your blood, Do you not have any morals?
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 I totally agree with Martini here....
absolutely shocking behaviour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): This is a very bad place to ask such questions. I mean, there are more than just one very immoral thing you're doing. Don't expect people here to help you with your 'dilemma'.
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