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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

It's like he's given up on the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Where do I even begin.. My boyfriend and I used to be so happy together. We'd go out a lot, we'd have fun, we would do all sorts of things. And then one day, it just stopped all together. I feel like he's bored with me. Like I'm a bother to him mo...

Am I overreacting or is he just not that into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I feel like he’s just not that into me. He’s been in florida for over 2 weeks now, but I’m always the one calling/texting him. This isn’t the first time that this has happened. He goes down to Florida to ...

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm ...

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said ...

Any advice on ending this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I started talking to this girl a little over a month ago online. we seemed to get along well have some similar interests so i asked her to meet. i didnt feel any sparwhen we metks or anything but i figured thats just because we are still just ...

I don't love him any more .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I want a divorce but my husband doesnt agree, what can i do i dont love him anymore but we have a child. The fact that i dont love him anymore and everytime he asks me to have sex with him and if i disagree he gets mad and always doubted that i dont ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

Is he telling friends those things because he knows I'm over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - Therrs this guy who ive known for a year and its like...we made out alot and I used to have like a huge crush on him. I even told him. But there was a few times he has kissed me cheek, but there was this time where he kissed me for no reason out of ...

My girlfriend never seems to have time for me and 'forgets' when we've made plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

19 July 2014 (M) - Should I break up with my girlfriend? I have been dating her for about 9 months and we are in high school I am home-schooled she is goes to a normal high school. The past few months have been very rough between us, but we are both very stubborn and ...

What can I do? I have conflicting feelings about my relationship and it's scaring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Thanks very much for taking the time to read this. I've been struggling with my conflicting feelings about my relationship, and as time goes on and I grow more and more attached to my boyfriend, my feelings just conflict more and more. I used t...

How do I regain some control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - Were now a year in to our relationship At first i couldnt believe how amazing he was. Ive definitely never loved anyone like i love him and hes like my best friend but the past 6 weeks hes been really distant and is cancelling plans. Ive always been ...

Married 50 years. What do I do now: start over or live the rest of my life like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - Well where do you start, I just reached my 50Th wedding anniversary, I said* reached( not celebrate) because my husband said if I take you somewhere you will just just start a argument, which is not true as I paid for a trip to Vegas and he didn't ...

How do I handle this? Holiday booked with Bf but I don't want to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I (both in twenties) have been together for 5 years but we're having our first holiday abroad this year. He can be very snappy at times and I've found he's been doing it a lot recently, I've talked to him and he's said he will sto...

Not sexually compatible. She's beautiful and we've been together 5 years. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - I have a problem that I think may be pretty common, so I would like to hear from people who have been through it, or are currently dealing with it. I have a partner who is great in every way. Independent, smart, good looking, shares a lot of ...

Should I leave this FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

14 July 2014 (M) - We've now known eachother for 5 five and have been FWB for four. In the beginning, I was instantly attracted to her but due to certain anti-social qualities, I didn't want to be in a relationship. She was also attracted to me as well so she wanted ...

Going the distance. Can love become friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - Our 3-month relationship has been going great. It's been rather serious, too — given that I've met his mother on several occasions, such as dinner and coffee. But in a month I will go to France on exchange and he will go to England for Masters. ...

Am I too manly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I ...

I don't want to flush 21 years of marriage but something's got to change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - Well, you've probably never heard this one before. My husband and I live next door to his mother. She's a lovely person but has the habit of being taken advantage of by her children, grandchildren, etc.. For years, like 21, I've had to remind him ...

I gave up everything to move in with my B/f and now he says that he doesn't love me. The house I left has been rented out and my job was filled almost immediately. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - I have known my boyfriend nearly 2 years now and 2 months ago he asked me (and my dog) to move in with him. He has not lived with a woman before - he is 38 years old. I agreed and re-located, giving up my job as the commute would no longer be viable ...

I feel I am constantly waiting for him and wasting my life away ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have a son together who is 3 years old. We all live together, my partner works 16 hour days, and he works nights. He only gets one day off but even on his day off i don't see him as he lays in bed ...

Boyfriend living with me temporarily the love is dying, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years now and the love is seriously dying out. We have a few past personal issues but that isn't what's pushing us apart. Recently, about 3 or so months ago, he got evicted from his...

I haven't known my boyfriend and feel like I'm barely getting to know him and we have an 11 month old baby together. Break up or make up? Relationship problems going on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - This question is going to go a little deeper from this post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-told-me-let-me-get-fat.html I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now coming December 13th. We've hit some bumps in the road a...

I love her but I feel we should break up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

4 July 2014 (M) - My gf and I have been together for about 4 years and it's been mostly good. But for the past year I have been unhappy. I've tried to determine why I'm unhappy but don't really have a reason. I just am. I've told my gf about my feelings and tried to...

We drifted apart, now wondering if we should try again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I'm in two minds whether or not to give my relationship with my ex, and father of my kids another try. Part of me thinks it would be great for us as a family while the other part thinks it might ruin what we have now. I was 18 when I fell preg...

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial st...