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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a ...

I work with my ex-boyfriend's new fiancée and hearing about their perfect life together is painful for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Me and my teenage sweetheart were together for 5 years when he broke up with me by text. Although we have been apart 2 years i really miss him. To make matters worse i work with his new girlfriend on a daily basis and he has just asked her to marry...

He promised to spend New Year's Eve with him but cancelled to be with his friend. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've dated my boyfriend for a year and out of the blue the past January he broke up with me. He became easily influenced by his mates as they broke up with their gfs and were single and he was the only one attached at the time. We spend New Year's ...

I wasnt a priority his life, so I broke up with him, did I do right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me out and maybe guide me on a decision I made. I broke up with my boyfriend of about 4 months today and I guess I just need to see if people think I did the right thing as I know what I am like, I will do ...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

I want to be proactive about ending this relationship, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 18 months. He has let me down over money, flirting and not taking enough responsibility. He is not a bad person but I met him when I was at a low point after divorce and we dont have much in common. I feel I have put a ...

My girlfriend told me she doesn't like girls anymore then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My gf of 6yr recently up n told me she doesnt like girls anymore but she loves me. I asked how is that possible and she said it faded. So we ended up breaking up and getting bk together and she started acting distant from me. I came home fromwrk ...

Its make or break time for our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...

He seems to have pulled back -- what can I do to fix the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

18 December 2013 (F) - I made an account on linked-in few months ago. This guy added me. And we started talking. He asked for my Whatsapp. And at first I did not give him my whats app number, but then, after few weeks, I asked him to message me. So, we started messaging. ...

I was SO in love with him! Can someone help me figure out why I feel disconected now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in a situation that I need help with. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. When i first met him I fell a connection right away. I was the one who pursued him and I was the one who initially wanted to be i...

Can someone who fell out of love fall back in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My bf of 2 years just broke up with me with saying, he fell out of love. He tells me this has been going on for a few months and he doesn't think he can recover from it. He was so much in love with me. I was the center of his attention. We talked a...

Should I try and persuade her to date me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 December 2013 (M) - Hi, I've never posted here before but here it goes. I dated this girl nearly three years ago. A friend set us up, and things didn't work out. I didn't know her that well and she didn't know me, not to mention the fact that I had just gotten my heart...

I'm thinking of divorcing my wife because she isn't pretty enough

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

14 December 2013 (M) - I will be as honest as I can, so i can have some honest responses.I need some suggestion from people who are on the same shoes or from anyone. I have been married for 3 years. I am 26 and my wife is 24. In my opinion i think my wife looks 6/10....

In an unhappy relationship. Should I pursue things with the other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Looking for some advise, I've been with my partner for 23 years. 6 years ago we split up for two years, in that time I met someone else and was with them for seven months. When that finished a while after I got back with my long term partner. Thi...

Four weeks later, has he lost interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - Hi there I met a guy online we met and instantly hit it off... had a great time met at my local... saw him once a week since then so had x4 dates... he used to text me everyday or send a late goodnite sms too the sms have stopped... I did send him a ...

I'm so scared that this 4 week break so early on in our relationship is going to ruin us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I've been seeing my boyf since the summer and been official for the last 2 months. Everything is going great. So far he seems my perfect man and I'm so happy. But here's the thing, last week he went home for xmas, he'll be gone 3-4 weeks. He's ...

Is there a way to platonically get to know my crush more, or does he already assume that I'm interested in more than that? Also, what should I do about the current situation with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years, and we've been best friends for 3 or 4 years prior to that. We get along great for the most part, and it's really hard to picture what my life would be like without him since we know each ...

Do I date him? I find his personality crazy attractive, but I just don't find him very attractive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Hi, first of all thank you so much for any help! I'm in a bit of a bind. Backstory: I'm a freshman in college, and I entered college not looking for a relationship. In HS I had two year and a half long relationships, and I entered college wanting ...

I had a drunken one night stand when my fiance broke up with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - I have woken up feeling awful. I just need to vent. 3 months ago I was a normal , happy girl , engaged to my lovely partner, we had our problems but doesn't everyone. A classy, professional , quiet girl, but always laughed and smiled. We had ...

I feel like he`s putting his friend first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - Hi I have been going with my bf for about two years. We don't live together we live about twenty mins apart. But since I move from the same village he always spends time at his friends on the drink and only comes to c me about four times week. I do ...

He has been cheating for eight years, and I have collected the proof!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - Hi I've been with the same guy 8 years I've been by his side through the roughest of times i had met him while he was married he left her for me . I've done everything possible to make him happy I've never cheated I've never been attract ed to any ...

Should I stay or should I go? Reunited with ex but got no closure over a women I dated while we were broken up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (M) - Hi, every body, well my EX and I got back together year an a half ago, broke up cause after 7 years she never told me she loved me, when we got back together she said it once, I have told her many times, she says she has a wall up. But after al...

When I jokingly told my B/f that I'm going out on a hot date, he said "the only date you'll get is that homeless guy who sleeps in the bus shelter"! Ouch!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

4 December 2013 (F) - Hi. When I called my boyfriend last night, after not seeing him nor hearing from him for a few days, he said he's very busy. I jokingly said in that case I'm going out on a hot date. To which he replied: "the only date you'll get is that homeless...

Need ideas to spice up sex life after 30 years of marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

3 December 2013 (M) - I been married 30 years. Whats something we can do in bed that will turn on my wife. she's not into anything kinky. Its as if she's lost interest? I need a women view....

What about AFTER an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - How do you think men feel after having a long term affair on their partner? Do the feel regret? Do they even care? What if their current relationship was on the rocks and they were together "for the kids".... would there be less guilt? ...

My husband and I are more like friends than a married couple. Why does this bother other people?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - How to deal with society ? The story is that my husband and I became more friends than a married couple. Sex is long not in a picture, which doesn't seem to bother any of us. It's not like it's gone forever, sometimes we do it when get tipsy or...

Afraid he's lost interest! Should I stop seeing him before I get hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - Hi aunties and uncles: I have been going on dates with a guy 4-5 times. He has been a gentleman. I am traditional and not okay with physical intimacy but since the first time we hang out, he always pecks me on cheek to say goodbye. However, as ...

Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude...