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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How will I ever find a nice guy to date with all this crap that people are led to believe from advertising?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Sorry if this seems like a rant, but honestly, I'm just so upset/angry. I'm not exactly the biggest fan of men, just because I'm friends with men, so I hear all of the "Oh, my girlfriend is hot.. OMG that girl over there would so get it!" constan...

I'm going away for 2 weeks and we went on one date. Will he forget me in that time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hi im on an exchange in germany at the moment but just before I left me and this guy ive liked for weeks went on a date it went really well so the day I was leaving we met up. That went really well and we kissed and he was on about meeting my family ...

Is five months too soon to move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for five months and we're thinking of moving in together. I spend about three or four nights a week with him anyway and we were on holidays together for over a week and got on great! I've known him for about ten ...

Is it worth staying in a relationship when its difficult to get along?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a solid 9 months. He is older than me. I am 18 and he is 27. HE is an illegal immigrant and he has a 1 year old daughter with his ex. I found out about his daughter and literatly unbalanced ex 2 months ...

Jealousy and Obsession about Girlfriend Sexual Past with HER male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - Hello. I'm 30 years old and I have a girlfriend (she's 29). We started dating about 11 months now. I already knew her but I had never talked to her until we started and felt in love and start a relationship. I love her deeply like never before (...

I'm getting mixed signals from ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - So, me and this girl broke up about 9 months ago. I've met and dated other people, lived my life in the meantime. Yet I can't get over her, my mind keeps going back. We still meet every now and again and get along great. People who don't kn...

What am I doing wrong? Am I the only 18 year old who has never been kissed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I am 18 and i have never had a stable boyfriend. i am really nice and fairly pretty. Im a little over weight (170lbs) andd i feel like that holds me back a bit. I have had a lot of guys interested in me over the years but they are creepy and no ...

I honestly can't envision a future where its not me carrying the bulk of the load. What do you advise I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I've been in this relationship for about a year. We were together for like two months, before I broke it off, and then maybe half a year passed before we got back together, which is where we are now. Its not all bad things that I have to say abou...

I've never been with a girl before and now don't know how to proceed with her? She's stopped replying to my messages.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hey everyone! I'm in need of some advice, thanks for your help in advance! I've been messaging with a girl for a few months now. I've actually never been with a girl before, but for some reason she and I seemed to connect from the very first secon...

I've been so lonely and insecure after breaking up with my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - After a year, my break up , i couldn't find anyone to be with. I'm alone , 27 . and i showed my intention to girls but there is no respond. my big problem is i have no company to go with friends. because i'm working hard on my thesis , and alw...

Our dates went well, he was interested in seeing me, and now he's been ignoring me for 2 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - To cut things short, I was dating this guy I met at my uni.. We weren't seeing each other for long, we met, he got my number, we spoke on whatsapp for a week or so and then decided to meet up. We saw each other three times. We went out to dinn...

Afraid she didn't enjoy her first time -- how can I be better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - How To Sexually Connect with my girlfriend? Hey everyone, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, and recently she's started hinting that she might want to have sex. She is a virgin. However, I've never had sex with a vir...

Should I send Valentines cards to the 2 girls that I like?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I am becoming more confident in asking girls out, but I'm not sure about these, so I need some advice: The girl who does my massage has a great personality and is very sexy. I have had feelings for her for a while now, and when I go and see her w...

Should I be jealous or get used to the relationship that my B/f has with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I am with my bf about 18 months, I really love him and I can see he loves me,we plan living together etc..Everything would be ok, if he wasn´t still friends with his ex..I mean very good friends. They´ve been in one group of friends ...

Am I cheating myself under this "settling" thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - After more daydreaming and thinking about my future, I am wondering if "settling" would be considered a negative thing at this point. I have wanted a relationship for over 10 years now, but it hasn't happened despite my efforts. The basic ...

I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...

I'm starting to think I have more feelings for my girlfriends daughter than for my girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I am a 26 yr old man currently dating a 43 yr old that has a 18 yr old daughter and 2 younger boys I am finding a hard time not becoming attracted to her now she is of age me and her mom have been together for a few years now what should I do I am ...

If we get together it will be a LDR, she is worried about our age gap and she already has a FWB....should I leave now before I invest any feelings into someone I have no chance with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - Hey! I am 27 year old male with college degree and stable job. I am financially stable and have established lifestyle. I met a 20 year old girl on facebook and have been talking on the phone and through text. She is from Texas and I am from ...

Was this just harmless flirting with my friend's sister, or is there something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - So I’ve never had the issue of being attracted to good friends little sisters until this weekend. She is 24, about as tall as me, she is really cool in all senses, and amazingly beautiful. It was my good friend for work, at his birthday party a...

Am I in the wrong? A friend had feelings for him. But he wasn't interested. Months later I went out with him. Now everyone is mad at me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I am 22 and in my final year of university. I have been living with the same group of girls since first year, and one of them had a crush on a guy who lived in our halls when she first met him. He didn't return her feelings, which she knew. ...

Did cancelling once mean I missed my chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been texting back and forth with this guy for ages and he hasn't asked me out more than one time, which I had to reschedule and eventually cancel at extremely short notice when my sat nav wasn't finding our meeting place. I probably should have ...

Is it healthy to be turned on by a girl because she did porn or sleeps with men for money?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - hi, i was talking to a friend of mine and he was saying how he was interested in this girl, and said that she once performed in a few adult videos and still does some escort work. Its a little beyond my stuff I'm used to so i was pretty surprised...

Are my own actions becoming part of the problem in our relationship? I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have so many trust issue, that it is going into my relationship with the person I am in love with. I really want to marry this man, but i find my self pushing him away from me. I have been hurt so much in my life and i have hurt him. i think he...

I lost my virginity to him, but now it seems he's ready to move on. Do you think he is breaking up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and dated for two and half months. I loved him and thought he loved me and I lost my virginity to him the second month and three weeks later he sends me a message saying he hasn't been feeling hisself lately and that he is overwhelmed ...