A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi im on an exchange in germany at the moment but just before I left me and this guy ive liked for weeks went on a date it went really well so the day I was leaving we met up. That went really well and we kissed and he was on about meeting my family and me his and stuff (im not sure whether we are an 'offical' couple or not but its seems more than just a date). Anyway he was on about how long 2 weekz is and how he'd really miss me and is looking forward to me coming back and even gave me his wristband to remember him by while im away, we even have plans for when I get back aboht meeting up. But im really worried he's just gonna forget about me and will want nothing to do with me when I get back, i mean we've been talking to each other but 2 weeks is a long time and im worried he'll get bored or something and just ignore me when I get back. Please can anyone give me any advice on this situation with my maybe not sure 'boyfriend' if he is. Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 February 2013):
Serpico and CMMP are right... if he does forget you in two weeks, there was nothing there and he's not worth the effort.
to be honest however it sounds like you are trying to find something to worry about....
2 weeks is NOT a long time... not at all... Yes at your age it seems like a long time.... but a minute when you are waiting for something seems like a long time.
I would say you have plans for when you get back, you have his wrist band... just go and enjoy and relax...
and when you get back update us and let us know how it's going.
A
male
reader, Serpico +, writes (12 February 2013):
If he forgets you in that time it sounds like there was nothing really worth remembering - for either of you...
...............................
A
male
reader, CMMP +, writes (12 February 2013):
Let's just say if two weeks is all it takes for him to forget about you then you'll be lucky to be rid of him.
...............................
A
female
reader, hotmommanell +, writes (12 February 2013):
He could, but it sounds like that will not happen. He's expressed a lot of interest, so I wouldn't worry. Just go on your two week stent and try to think about anything but him until you get back. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
...............................
|