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writes:So I’ve never had the issue of being attracted to good friends little sisters until this weekend. She is 24, about as tall as me, she is really cool in all senses, and amazingly beautiful.It was my good friend for work, at his birthday party at his house. I went hoping to have a good time but I ended up feeling happier than I have in months. I met his little sister there, but I had no intention of flirting with her out of respect for my friend so I was just polite. I kind of noticed the flirting started at dinner, when she came in to ask me if I wanted to eat, and then when I went in to the kitchen she was dishing it up for me. Then she just seemed to enjoy talking to me a lot. Then we all started drinking, and everyone was having a great time, then she asked me to go play an Xbox dancing game with her. However I can’t dance but it was funny for everyone and I didn’t care. At the end of it she had won but she gave me a big hug for playing with her. After that we all kind of just hung out for a little bit, then started playing again, this time she wanted to make a bet, if I won’t I got another hug, if she won I had to make her steak and lobster at my house. That seemed like a bigger flirt, and every time she won I was supposed to make the dinner better, and she kept winning. The biggest flirt part of it was when we were figuring out where everyone was going to sleep I just said id sleep on the couch, and my friend gave her the guest room. Then she looked at me and said it’s a big bed, she didn’t mind sharing. And that was the biggest flirt of all, we played some more games she beat me some more, then she passed out. We got her to the bed, then I went and slept on the couch, I wanted to crawl in next to her, not to do anything but just to sleep next to her, but I didn’t out of respect for my friend. She had left before I woke up, but apparently all the flirting between me and her was well noticed by my friend. He said he has never seen her flirt with anyone like that, like it was she actually was attracted to me, and that if me and her did get together he would be happy for both of us. I came home and slept for a bit. Later I messaged her on FaceBook asking what the bet ended, kind of in a joking way. She messaged back, said she had a bad hangover and asked me how I was. I said not bad, just slept if off and asked her when she wanted me to make the dinner for her. She said a day joking because she knew I couldn’t because I work nights, and then said it was ok that I didn’t actually have to make a dinner for her. I said an actual day and said that I would like to and then she messaged back and said that its ok that i didnt need too, so i just said ok and that i hope i can see her again sometime soon, and that she was really cool. But she made sure to tell everyone that I owed her that dinner, like her parents, her sister, and a few others. So I don’t know if to take this as harmless flirting, or something was actually there. I have butterflies in my stomach since last night, and I’ve actually felt pretty happy since, and I would actually like to be with her. Does it seem like I should let this one go, or actually peruse her, does it seem like she was attracted to me or just having fun. It feels to me she was and that she may actually have wanted to date me. I haven’t felt this way in a long time, it’s not a situation where I just want to hook up with her, and I’m not that kind of guy. I’d actually want to date her, and be with her. What do you all think? Go after her or leave it be.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (11 February 2013):
Dude, you do need a better command of the obvious. This girl couldnt be anymore obvious.
If you like her, Id say go for it, but if your friend is a good friend I would say make sure you clear it with him first. Gfs are a dime a dozen, good friends arent. If it was men, I would make sure my friend knew I just wasnt chasing tail.
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