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writes:my boyfriend got grounded earlier today for a month, when i get ungrounded on monday, we both have strict parents and don't deserve to be punnished as we've done nothing wrong (both for different reasons btw) meaning i can't see him, or talk to him online or anything. i'm used to seeing him everyday and night and he's always there when i need him and i just don't know what to do with my self now.i know it's not the end of the world, but to me it might as well be, he's the only thing i care about in my life, i don't really get along with my family at the moment, and as for friends; well thats a long story, before we started going out i was completley down, none stop i hated my life and he changed all of that, now i'm scared i'm going to go back to feeling the same way.we had to go through the summer holidays without seeing each other for a few weeks as we were on holiday at separate times and i barely coped then.i just don't know what to do with myself, it might sound pathetic but i really don't think i can cope.i don't really know why i posted a quesion, i just don't really have anyone to talk to,haha; as sad as that might sound.anyways, any tips on how i could pull myself together and or anything in mind that i could do to try and occupy myself?or even something to help him get out of it?thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): Hi thats sweet thats how I feel bout my man. Lived with him 2 years gone out for 5 years. Dont it suck when rents ground ya. Im 18 and dont get grounded nemore so Im lucky. But i have 2 big broz 3 big sisters and am an aunty to 3 lovely babies. And like we have always said What Mum And Dad Dont Know Wont Hurt Them if you catch my drift... Wink wink hehe good luck sis
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): Before you find someone who likes you, you have to like yourself. 1) Find a hobbie, something you enjoy, it could be rounders, rock-climbing, ice-skating, football, dancing, swimming, an art club, photography, anything!2) Get talking to different people you may not have mixed with before, at school, or a class you enjoy, and make an effort to get to know people. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to have friends! It takes work, and time but its definately worth having mates of your own age you can talk to about the same kind of things, have fun with and learn to make the best out of being a teenager.2) You havent said much about your relationship with family, so it might be a good idea to talk to childline on 0800 1111. It doesnt have to be a big problem to get some help, maybe you could patch things up by opening up to them about you feelings and spending time with them.3)Write a list of things you like about yourself, whether its your looks, if your quite musical, maybe you are really good at maths, or kind and generous. 4) Its great you have found a great boyfriend you care about, but you must not let him be the only thing you care about, boys come and go, and its unlikely you will stay together forever. Use the time you have not seeing him changing how you feel about yourself and others around you.I really think you just need to open up to more people and find new interests and hobbies. You could even get a new pet, start cooking, volunteering, anything!And remember although you may not think it, there is always someone out there who cares and life will get better.Go for it!Hope i helpedx
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