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writes:Me and my boyfriend of 4 months had just broke up.He broke it off with me cause i questioned if he was cheating which he denied. I told him his friend told me and he said i was tring to get him mad at his friend.Of course he denied it and said a thousand times in text messaging that he did nothing wrong. I had questioned him in the past because of a girl friend of his calls non stop and always doing things for him..I let him know this makes me uncomfortable and to please stop. It was getting out of hand and when you are with your man it's agravating that she is always blowing up his phone when were together.I have no idea if he's telling me the truth but why would his friend tell me such a thing? i haven't talked to him in 5 days and he is making no effort to work things out or try to talk to me.He always told me he loved me and he couldn't believe how happy I made him feel, he also told me that no one has ever made him feel like i do, and he would always give me kisses in the morning and tell me how much he loved me...so why hasn't he called or text me to tell me he misses me? not sure what i should do and need someone to help me, do i call or not? do i text him? i miss him so much but have no idea if he was telling me the truth about cheating..I would figure if he didn't he would be on my door step there for me or at least not ending it with me via text message.did he cheat? or is he mad that i questioned him?
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reader, gr +, writes (12 September 2008):
hon--here's why he broke up with you. because you were saying the truth and other than save your relationship and tell you the truth. he has to save his face and throw a big fit that says "you don't trust me" and you shouldn't.
think about it! If he asked you if you were seeing your old boyfriend and you were innocent??would that have made
you mad enough to break up? just lose him, don't look back. stand by your beliefs and your gut instinsts..they don't lie. only people lie!
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reader, Serenity1 +, writes (12 September 2008):
 If you can don't call. This will make him wonder the same thing that you're wondering. But I would say after a complete week 7days if he hasn't called call him. That is if you're still feeling that you miss him. But if he wasn't cheating when you were together, I'm pretty sure he is now. He's thinking he doesn't have a gf so he can do what he wants. Which may be what he needs some freedom. Is he young (20-30)? I imagine that if he is he wants to explore a little and its always better when they explore and your not in a relationship that way you can explore to. Don't feel to bad if he really loves you he'll be back...trust me. Hope this helps.
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