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Do you think her brother will harm me after I pushed her too far?

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Question - (12 September 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2008)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend(my best friends sister) is a shy qutie around me, we were sitting at in my room yesterday, just softly kissing each other on the mouth and I started getting rough with her, kissing her all over and fast and I kinda forced her to do it and she told me to stop but I didn't and I start hearing her cry so I immediately stopped and looked at her, she had her face turned from me and I can hear her crying. But how can I be sure she isn't upset with me? Before I could say a thing, she ran of the room. She wont talk to me all at. Do think her brother is going kill me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008):

What you did is called sexual assault, not only can you get beat up for it, you can go to jail or juvenile hall.

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

Midge agony auntHow can you make sure she's not upset with you? Are for real? What do you think? Do you honestly think that after you tried to force her to do something like that, she isnt going to be upset and scared of you? You need to have a serious chat with yourself!

If she was my sister, your ass would be grass and I would be the lawnmower! Yeah, Id give you an ass kicking that you so rightly deserve!

I dont believe in violence but for someone as young as you to do that at your age, is very worrying! She will be very scared of you now and I would totally understand that?

My question to you. Do you fully understand your actions and that what yo did was wrong? Are you shameful of your actions?

If you answer no to either of these questions, get yourself to a psychiatrist quick!!

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntI tell you what "I bloody well would".

If this isnt a hoax, then you should be totally ashamed of yourself, you do realise that you could be classed as a "sexual preditor" dont you. If you want that label then you are going the right way about it.

If a girl says NO, it means NO get it!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008):

I HOPE this was a lesson to you, if it wasn't then I fear for other girls that fall under your spell. How old was this younger sister? if you are only 13-15, she must have been really young.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

She told you to stop and you didn't.

So damn right she's upset. If she was here asking what she should do, EVERY SINGLE aunt would tell her to dump your arse.

You may get a beating and you'll deserve it. Hopefully it will teach you NEVER to force yourself on a girl again.

As for your girl you have to get on your knees and BEG for forgiveness.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, BaileeKS United States +, writes (12 September 2008):

Its no fun to be forced to do ANYTHING. You need to give her space and leave her alone. You need to deal with the fact you lost control and possibly get help, talk to someone, before you take it too far.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008):

Dude when a girl tells to stop you stop. I hope her brother or dad does beat up you. If you want to be with this girl go to her house and make things right NOW!!

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