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anonymous
writes:My ex bf and me have never broken up, well we split up, but he has always been there for me, helping me economically. I have a new bf since Feb, he does not know I date both, neither does my ex bf. Right now I feel dirty and desperate, I think I love both for different reasons, my ex is nice and helps me with $ once in a while, my new bf is a great man and a nice lover, but does not support me even to buy the pills he himself enjoy for us to have sex. I am at the point of getting crazy and do not see any solution, What do I do? My ex is 28 yrs older than me and does not want to have kids, my bf is 40 and wants kids in the future. I am almost 28 and feel I need to have a kid, a family, but this way i cannot. My ex bf threw me out of his house, sold it and move to the town we met, now I got a another job in the same town, so I do not know if for fate`s decision I should go back to my ex, or stay with my new guy be honest and get my life back on track. probably you think I am a whore, but believe life is so hard $ speaking that sometimes we have to take chances life give us.Help pls.
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reader, Aeval  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 You could try and be honest and tell each of them that you just need abit of time to clear your head about things and figure out what you want.
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You could tell them you need to go away with work, to see an old friend or anything.
You can figure this one out, But I really do suggest you go off and find time for yourself maybe 6months? Having a baby is a huge thing, you need to make sure you are witht he right man and are in the right head space.
Take time... like I said you are still young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow do I do that? if they do not know from each other, what excuse can I find to leave them for a while?
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reader, Aeval +, writes (12 September 2008):
No I dont think your a whore, I think your confused.
I suggest leave them both for awhile and focus on you, then when your head is clear make a choice.
Your still young.... you never know the perfect man may be just around the corner for you?
Good luck
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