A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hiya I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year. I love her very much and believe that she feels the same way. The problem however is I feel she may be embarssed by me. In the time we've been together I've only met her flatmate and this is only because they share a place together. I havent met her family, because they dont know shes a lesbian, but her friends do yet I've never been introduced or invited out. She has met a few members of my family and friends on several occasions. I havent said anything to my girlfriend because I'm not sure if im just being paranoid or not.My second problem is that last week when chatting on the internet, I had a look at my girlfriends webpage and noticed shed put herself down as being bi, however two weeks ago shed been gay on the page. When I asked her about it she was like oh I dont know how that happened etc. I dont mind her being bi, I just wish she wouldnt lie to me as it could only have been her whod changed it and I wonder why the sudden change from gay to biAdvice would be greatly appreciatedLaura xx
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reader, DV1 +, writes (20 May 2007):
 It appears to me that she's questioning who she is, and what she wants at the moment. She may also be experiencing some newfound curiousity in the opposite sex. As far as her friends are concerned, she may feel like she sees you all the time at home, and needs some space to hang out with her friends. At the same time, if you haven't met any one of the them, and you've been dating that long, there may be a worse reason. She might be going out and doing things with them, and not want you to know. I think that it may be time to look to a new horizon.Dv1
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