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writes:I have a serious problem, my girlfriend has recently told me that she wants to take a break to have space and to think if she really wants to be with me, she has also told me that she has become really flirty and doesnt want to hurt me and wants to get that out of her system. We have been together for over 2 years, we had our problems but we worked them out and this just came out of the blue when everything was going great. I really love her and she loves me we have even talked about marriage. I have also found out that she is kinda fond of someone and will more than likley date them. I have no idea what to say, think or feel, im just hurt and i dont know what to do. Someone help, Please?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
 This is a very difficult point that most people have encountered in a relationship. She seems to have a curiousity that couldn't be satisfied while in a relationship. It seems like she is taking the path of dating around for a long time. If you're looking for commitment, your best bet is to probably look elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): i am so sorry that you have to go through this darling. i myself have had to deal with something quite similar to your situation & it does hurt A LOT. i guess the best thing to do is give her the space that she had asked for (i know, it is easier said than done). in the mean time do not call her, text her or contact her in any way. if you do contact her .. it will push her away even more. let her contact you, but don't wait for her to contact you.. stay busy, go out with your friends & have some fun.
if she decides to not continue on with the relationship ..you must respect her decision. stay strong. chin up & smile.
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