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30-35,
*ero05
writes:i know is guy and weve been friends for like a week.hes awsome. he makes me laugh. hes kind. etcthe problem is that i think (as all of my friends have alredy told me) that he wants to be more than "just friends" with me. I dont im fine with he being my friend and i dont want him as a bf just because i dont feel that way towards him. how do i know that he likes me? :he always tells me im beautifulhe allways sais that he loves the color of my eyeshe wants to be closer to me when we talkhe ditches his friends to be with mehe likes to touch me (in a cute way not a creepy one) and so many more!i dont wanna hurt him. i still wanna be friends with him.i dont wanna suffer for someone else.what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Insinuate into the conversation that you're only looking for a friend. Do it in an indirect way that doesn't seem like you're targeting him.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 the only thing you do here is be brutally honest here and tell him the truth about how you feel. It sounds like he does fancy you alot, and the longer you leave it without saying anything the stronger his feelings will get for you. I know its hard but sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind.
Tell him that friends is as far as we can go, as i can never see you as a potential boyfriend.
Good luck x
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