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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

31 December 2016 (F) - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

Is he not interested or just bad at texting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Recently I've been talking to a guy, we live a long distance from each other so our main form of communication is texting. At first we texted frequently and the conversation flowed. However after a few weeks he kept taking longer and longer to ...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

I'm dating but I'm also developing stronger feeling for another guy. Not sure what to do. Help, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - I started university in September and have formed a good group of friends. I have started to date one of the guys in the group privately and I know he has fairly strong feelings for me. However, I have been talking a lot with one of the other guy...

How Long Do I Wait? Does he want a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - We have been talking for about 5 weeks now. We are about a 2 hours drive away from each other. We are not in a relationship, just been talking. He has already said he loves me we have sexted and we are planning on meeting up soon. I want to...

Do girls start to like guys if they spend this much time together? Or will I remain as just a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. I have question about this girl I like. Main question is does she like me? Background info about the situation. I have moved to a new country 6 months ago. I met this girl 4 months ago at a meetup. Meetup is where you go meet rand...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

I’m struggling with my sexuality and depression and wonder what I should do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

22 December 2016 (M) - I'd always considered myself a straight man but I guess what I'm about to say kind of disputes that a bit. So for the last 5-6 years I've basically been in love with my best friend who is also a man. I knew the entire time that he wasn't gay and ...

I think I may not be the only one he likes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - I'm in love with a guy in my school, that's university.i met him in early September.My problem is, I don't really know whether he likes me just as a friend or more than a friend. Even though he constantly tell me he likes me, holds my hands often, ...

Why does he ask? Why does he keep showing an interest in my dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - My friend's husband always asks me about my dating every time I see him and seems quite enthusiastic when he asks. Just before they got married a mutual friend said in front of my friend how her husband wanted to date me before they got together...

Could this be the beginning of an emotional affair ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - Could this be the beginning of an emotional affair?We've been married about five years. My husband is pretty open about most things, and I feel pretty much that I can trust him. The other day he called me over to see what a co-worker had posted o...

Take a job I don't want just to keep in contact with a crush?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

19 December 2016 (M) - Hi I'm Sam and I'm 17 years old. I have been working at a bar in the UK temporarily over the Christmas period. I was hoping that after this temporary spell, I would be offered the job permanently. However at the my shift last night, my boss spoke to ...

Should I write my bus driver crush a Christmas card?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - well I seen the bus driver I have a crush on who I think is about 36, I am 33. he is always shy but extra nice towards me and talks very low and mild mannered….so as I am getting on the bus today, he just cheeses and grins with all 32 teeth and says ...

Is my supervisor falling for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

19 December 2016 (M) - Hello, There is a supervisor at my job who I would always have small talk with and she's very accommodating when I ask her for something work wise. Sometimes I'm so busy I don't get the time to talk to her. I can admit that I do find her attract...

Four dates and now we're about to be away from each other for 20 days. How should I handle this extended break from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

18 December 2016 (M) - I've been on four dates with a girl I met on tinder over the last two weeks who is starting to really grow on me and I feel butterfly's in my stomach whenever we hang out together. I feel like we've taken things slow and that's super OK with me....

Are FWB supposed to be this attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - We didn't have sex. We cuddled and made out. No hj or bj, no touching of my bottom private either. He was being extremely sweet (interlock fingers, kissing forehead, cheeks, palm, etc) but I dump that as an act of fwb. I didn't text him the fol...

How do I play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

17 December 2016 (M) - I have this co-worker and I like her but the huge problem is she is also dating and has a child with another co-worker. They have been dating for a while. So, anyway they are going through a rough patch and thats putting it very loosely. Well, ...

Karma. is it a real thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

17 December 2016 (M) - Ladies, a question about carma, when you let someone else, get your life all screwed up, you know, treat them fantastic , thought you were doing everything just right, never argue, fight just alot of good times, but you actually didn't see the red ...

We’re the same age but she says I’m too young for her! Do I persevere or do I take that as she's not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

16 December 2016 (M) - Hey guys wondering whether I could have some help. After finishing a bad relationship 2 years ago, I bump into a friend from school i haven't seen in years. We end up getting on really well and going out on a few dates, all of which have been ...

The guy I like seems to be a really horrible person, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My friends are really close to this one guy. It has been over a few months since he started hanging around with us and he's been just fine with me. At first I started liking him and finding him attractive, so I confessed and heard no reply from him ...

What should I say? How can I find out where I stand, without sounding annoying to him ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - Hi!! Back in October a 5 month relationship ended because we decided to give each other a little space. On one weekend I went to an ex's house because he was having a get together with a few friends. Sketchy as it sounds nothing at all happened...

How can I deal with this? I'm straight but still confused about my sexuality.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - I'm a 25yr old women and I'm attracted towards androgynous/tomboy women. But I'm straight. 2 weeks before While I was at train station I saw this lady with sharp boyish personality and I went on noticing her continuously, she was attractive and f...

I trust my boyfriend, but this girl makes me a little nervous. Opinions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is going out all day with his "bestfriend" who is a girl today (they've never done that before but they have hung out) and he never told me about it or what they were going to do. I found out because I looked at what he was typing o...

I like the boy, and I don't want to lose my friends.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

7 December 2016 (F) - Hello,Im 16 years old.Me and my friends are like a close team and we are close to each other. We are really often going out and having an amazing time. Im the newest member in the "gang". They are trying to keep the "love" stuff outside of the team ...

How to get over my crush on my boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend. It feels weird every time I call him that because it's so much more than just that. He's my best friend and the father to our child and a great one at that. He works a full time job to sustain our little family and I ...

I can't be with him, how to forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - Hey, i hope you can help me get through this i have this one guy, my senior that i closed with, that i liked since back there but it seems that it is one sided so i tried my best to keep distance and find someone else without realizing that i...

I like her in 'that' way but she has a boyfriend and I'm not in a position to date right now either. How do I stop myself from falling for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

6 December 2016 (M) - Over the last year or so, I became good friends with this woman I work with. We get along really well, but I don't see or talk to her often outside of work, or anything like that, though. I think I'm starting to like her a little more; actually, ...

Told him to forget it - he's married. Now I've change my mind

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) - OK, an old acquaintance, we coincidentally met in a new town, and had sex for two nights. We spent the 3days hanging out together. We parted as we went back to our respective towns. He called me for a chat everyday, claiming that he missed me. O...

Why does guy B act different when shy guy A is around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) - SHY Guy A has a crush on me but guy B always try to flirt with me , teases me and try to get my attention by talking loud especially around guy A . I have noticed that guy B 's behaviour makes guy A very uncomfortable When guy A is not around then ...

Is it over or not? Should I text her something? Try calling again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) - I don't know if it's over or not. She's 35. We met about a month ago and hit it off really well on our first date, so we've been seeing each other regularly since then. She recently invited me to see her at a dance competition. I met her friends ...

Was this meaningless or is J trying to get me to notice her in some way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

4 December 2016 (M) - I have a friend who lives abroad and we talk a lot on Facebook. I went over there to visit her and met her friend who didn't speak much English (codename J). We were all out together and had a good time, but the language barrier could be an issue...

Why do I have crushes on women who are off limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - Hello. I think that I'm experiencing my 3rd lifetime crush. I can only like girls who are older than me. I'm in my early twenties and all three girls I've had strong feelings for, were in their early thirties or so. And the worst part of it is th...

Is she just using me, because I talk so nice to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - Hi, am wondering, i should keep, talking to this woman, I've been talking to for four years? We met on an online dating sire. We text each other, I've been really romantic with her, we have only met four times not on a date, she is very rich, a...

Does he just want into my trousers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

2 December 2016 (F) - Hello there, Iv been talking to a boy I love for a few months now and we've been out together but he lives away from me, it's all being going great and he told me he loved me and it was going so well. He's now said that I don't make him Happy and he ...

Wanting to confess to someone, that I want to date them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

1 December 2016 (F) - I like someone who is three years older than me, were are good freinds and he moves to University next June/May. I don't want my confession to ruin our freindship, I really like him and think I could have something special with him, but I don't know ...