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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is it over with my married lover? Or is he just cooling down?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

31 May 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, through common friends I met a guy at a dinner and we clicked instantly. I have been single for 3 years and I'm very hard to connect with someone immediately. We spoke the entire evening and exchanged numbers. The next morning I had ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

I made a fake account and my boyfriend chatted with it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - i made a fake account recently and send request to my bf...and he asked who s this and then i started talking to him by telling fake family nd fake profession and all..he shared all his personal details with me he even send his pictures to me( fake ...

How can I forgive my boyfriend for drunk cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have lived together since February, our one year is in a couple days. Last month he came home at 2:30 in the morning after drinking, he told me his car battery had died on his way home from work so he was stuck. i went through his ...

I know my friend's boyfriend is cheating on her but my boyfriend says I can't tell her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Hi; I have a boyfriend who I love dearly and me and him are good friends with another couple who we go out with and see a lot. I am very good friends with the girl of the couple and he is very good friends with the boy of the couple although...

My married lover seems to have lost interest in me. Why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I met a wonderful man through work and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. We had few business meetings with other people and he finally told me that he's very much attracted to me but never contacted me. I found out he was ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

Why am I jealous that she's seeing other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - Hello everyone...I have a gf and we have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. She lied and cheated me last year but we managed to get back. Now she's doing the same thing again so i broke if off. She said she loved both of us but i cant let ...

Why does my husband have this need to tell virtual strangers they are attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 yrs. our relationship was the result of an affair that started as friendship. He is 20 yrs older than me. We have been incredibly happy for 8 yrs. He recently turned 70 and now seems to need attention ...

Does my ex have unresolved feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - So I dated this girl long distance about 3 years ago. The relationship was fine until the very end when she started lying and treating me horribly. Long story short, she ended up cheating on me with her best friend (shd denied that she cheated on ...

I don't know what to do, yet I don't want to give up on us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - I recently read a post where the woman didn't know what to do because get man was still visiting online dating sites even though they are together and so neither of them are no longer single. I wanted to answer her, yet I can't honestly give her ...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

Do I message "his secret woman" and ask how many times he has seen her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - After finding a 3 year old secret twitter account of my long term partner I was gobsmacked the tweets 4/5 times a day hugs and kisses can't wait to see you tonight etc he'd been working with her every night for 8 years in 10 years I've never met one ...

I cheated then found out my girlfriend is pregnant. She says she doesn't trust me and would leave me if she wasn't pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

18 May 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for four years. A year ago we bought a house together and within weeks I got laid off from my job. I ended having to take a job that required me to be out of town for three weeks then home for a week. I felt terrible ...

Closure on possibly unfaithful ex boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I was in a four year relationship in which I pretty much did everything for my partner. I paid for everything, was disrespected, even had him move in with me for a couple months until he got back on his feet. I come from an extremely broken family ...

We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

Why does she keep cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

15 May 2017 (M) - The last three years have been very turbulent ones. We have broken up and got back together so many times. Usually couples just stop getting on and end up drifting apart. Not in our case, because its only ever been one thing that has ever caused ...

Hypothetically speaking should I help my brother cheat on an exam?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (F) - Hi everyone.. I have more a family kind of question.. So basically recently I had an exam which my friend accidentally missed and she asked me what was in the paper.. and I know in the resit paper, they give the same thing in one of the section w...

How should I approach this situation? I think he is messaging other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Recently I have had suspicions that my partner is messaging other women and watching porn. What makes me think this? On a few occasions I have heard orgasms, which made me feel uncomfortable, as I don't like the thought of my partner getting ...

She behaves so sweetly in public. But she cheated on me. What can I do to forget a crafty girlfriend, who I trusted and love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

10 May 2017 (M) - My LDR girlfriend cheated on me. I found out and I told her about her cheating. She cried, she denied her cheating. I said to her that I would not sponsor her into U.S as the fiancee. She replied to me that she did not want to go to U.S. After...

Cheating in a LDR. What advice can you give to me re my Gf who I think may be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (M) - This is my long distance relationship. We are dating 6 months. I met my girlfriend through my cousin. In our relationship, she is always showing to me that she is nice girl, and a faithful wife in future. She treat me very nice. About my girlf...

Why is my partner continuing to flirt on line with other women? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - My partner and I met on a date site we both came off. Then he went back on so I had my broadband to block all sites. He now has a game on his phone where he can talk dirty to others. Why is he doing this? He never talks dirty to me ...

I don't trust him as he's still active on the dating site, but I really don't want to end the relationship!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - We met online dating site. Agreed to close accounts once established relationship. He agrees exclusively, yet is still active on dating site! He denies any chatting or meetingsd x but refuses to close the account. . I was with him when he recieved a ...

Wife had an affair with a man bigger than me. Will she always be sexually frustrated with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

6 May 2017 (M) - My wife has had a affair with a man with a large penis. Mine is small. Will i continue to sexually frustrate her?...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Why is he so cruel after I did everything to be a good girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - I was introduced to this guy but I didn't find him attractive so I told him I wasn't interested. He persuaded me for 2yrs and I agreed to get to know him, I began to like him my friends and my mum thought he's a nice guy and I should give him ...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

What can I do to prevent falling for other men while I'm in this relationship? And what do I do about the guy that I kissed recently?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

3 May 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I love my man with every once of me. I cannot imagine my life without him. I care for him more than I care for myself. I constantly worry about his well being, whether he's happy, whether he's eaten, tired ...

Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...

We broke up because she's emotionally disturbed and would have sex with random people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

1 May 2017 (M) - So i started this new relationship about 3 months ago with a girl. Things went fast between us, but at times she was still emotionally disturbed and attached to her ex who was a complete ass to her. But she had 2 kids together with him, so it was ...