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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Am I a woman who just can't help herself? I've fallen in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - He is married, I have fallen so deeply in love with him I can't let go. My feeling is since we both can't and don't want to let go we should just ride the situation that we are in and see where it takes us. Every man who is single only wants to sl...

Unfinished business? Should I leave my current GF for an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my current girlfriend for roughly 5 months now, and everything was going fine, until my ex recently came back on the scene. I had a strong connection with my ex and we were each others best friends. I do n...

I have a LDR but have reconnected with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - I have been with my current partner for 4 months now, and everything is fine. It's long distance (100 miles). But I drive to see her once a week. However, my ex has recently come back in to my life. My ex and I both moved cross country for ...

Can someone who cheated on their partner ever gain self-respect again as a person, whether they decide to stay or end the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - My morals are the one thing I always prided myself in having. I rarely lied (even then I can't flat out lie, more like white lies or divert the answer), obedient to parents (never sneaked out etc.), I don't curse, and I have a strong faith in God, I ...

Will his friend be thinking I am an absolute idiot to still stay with him? I think my husband took another girl's number while away with the army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Hey. I need to know if I'm being silly or not. Last month my husband went away abroad with the army to malta and while he was there got girls numbers etc to be honest Anyway he wants us to go out with a guy and his gf, the guy we are meeting wen...

Should I be happy for my ex fiance after he cheated on me and hurt me so badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - About 3 months ago, my fiancé of 4 years ended our relationship. I would later find out he was cheating on me behind my back for about 2 weeks with a new woman at his work who he barely knew. I knew he met her and I actually knew her somewhat bac...

My story, all I have been through and how it may help you.

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29 March 2016 (M) - My wife cheated on me and it hurt me in ways i never thought i could be hurt. I felt so many emotions get distroyed and come alive at the same time. I wanted to know what caused this. Why she did it. It all boils down to: It was not my fault. ...

I don't love him, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3150 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone my own age for about six months now. For me, this is brand new. I never date for very long, so the fact I've made it this far is astonishing. This person, we'll call him Blue Eyes, I met him through my mother. She met him, ...

He's married, won't leave his wife but calls me heartless for distancing myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - Need advice!' I am recently divorced, because my marriage was never like a marriage and then he started cheating. My and my ex are good friends for now. Meanwhile, 6 years back I met and fell in love with a married man (I was married at that t...

Should I stay good friends with my ex for our son's sake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - I have an issue that is sort of complicated. I have an ex fiancé and we have a son who is currently 3 years old. We were together about 4 and a half years or so. The reason we broke up is well he had cheated on me with a woman he had met. This st...

How can I make this work? I want to get back with her. My family think I'm crazy to try.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a pretty intense relationship. We met when she was pregnant with her son, we became friends first but started dating shortly after her son was born. I hadn't had much contact with my family for a few years but once we ...

I feel scared that I'll be tempted to cheat again. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Hi all. I am a 37yr old married woman no kids. Have been super happily married for a few years now, but I am seeing my usual relationship pattern starting once again. And the pattern, which has always started after a few years into any of rela...

Should I trust and feel reassured by my Boyfriend's remarks considering he cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me and it has affected subsequent relationships. When I said to my current boyfriend that I always want to be his only one, he said to rest well knowing I am the only one he thinks about. Would this be reassuring ...

My boyfriend cheated and left me, so why do I feel guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I need some help. Basically, my ex boyfriend cheated on me and ended up dumping me in order to be with the girl he cheated with. Now he didn't do this in a 'mean' way, he just seem very confused. He was still trying to make our relationship wor...

He moved in with his online girlfriend. We had such an intense connection, surely that hasn't gone away for him if he's contacting me and it feels like it used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I started dating someone in early December.Things went on for nearly two months. It was magic. Incredible conversation, passionate intimacy - you name it. We were instantly drawn to each other, it was a ridiculous "love at first sight" type of ...

Should I confess the details of my secret messages ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Should I tell my husband all the details of my relationship with an old friend ? My husband has always had a high sex drive and never had a problem with performance. But since he found out about us sharing some very explicit texts, he has ha...

I found my cheating ex on a dating site again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - So I met a man across the country who lives in Seattle (I live in the east coast). He remained faithful for almost 2 years and before I flew out to see him I found out he was still on date sites and had dated several and hooked up with 2 (no sex). I ...

Why did my married man detach so quickly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Hi I am new and don't even know if I'm in the right forum. I was having an online affair with a MM for a cpl months. He said he was unhappily married and only there for the kids and I could relate because although I am not married I've been with my ...

We’re back together so why is he on a dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I decided to dump my boyfriend but afterwards realised i didnt want to do it i was feeling low im much happier now , The thing is 2 week ago he said he wanted to give it another go and we made plans to meet but i was ill with tonsillitis so ...

Despite his reassurances, there’s something telling me not to trust him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and in the first month we started dating, I found out that he was messaging other girls on Facebook wanting to hang out with them. I just found out recently and when I called him out on it, he ...

How do I stop? I'm constantly craving male attention and end up obsessing over those who give me this attention

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - I have a recurrent issue that seems to be getting out of hand and worse. It seems that every time a man flirts with me or shows interest, I start to revel in this attention and I start liking them. For instance, a guy has recently joi...

Ex moved on with someone else quickly. Does this mean he was over me before we even broke up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - Hello maybe someone can help me out, thank you in advance. My ex and I broke up back in late January and within almost a month he got into a new relationship. We were together 3 1/2 years so him moving on in just a month kind of hurt me because ...

After cheating on me 3 weeks ago, why is my Bf not doing everything to regain my trust?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has cheated on me recently(three weeks ago). I ask him to delete the woman on social media, block her number etc. He did. However, she still pops up in different messengers and such. when i ask to for the passwords to his accounts he ...

He has a new girlfriend, so what does he want from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. A little back story, my boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 4 months now. The break up was a lot harder on me than him because he is the one who broke up with me, and told me he didn't feel the same about me anymore. It was ...

What support and advice can I give to my friend who has been trying to break up with her married lover? He does not want to let her go.

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - so my best friend is involved with this married man. she is very naive and had just spent the last 3 years healing from a very bad emotional abusive relationship. she joined the military as an officer and at her first duty station, she was paired w...

Is it wrong for a widow to sleep with her late husband's married best friend ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - I am a forty year old widow. My husband passed away in January 2014. I was very lonely. My husband's best friend, X, and his wife Y used to visit when my husband was alive and continued to do so after my husband's death. A month later Y noticed ...

I think my girlfriend cheated in a threesome but won't admit it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

9 March 2016 (M) - I am pondering a situation that occurred with my girlfriend after had been living together for just over a year. The evidence points to the possibility of her having a threesome with her best friend and her best friend’s boyfriend. It looks on th...

My boyfriend showed up with scratch marks after the weekend. Is this enough evidence to leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Please help. It will be 3 years in June I have been with my boyfriend. Yesterday I noticed a few horizontal scratch marks above his stomach. They were not there on Friday when I last saw him but they were there the following Monday. I did not...

I want to save my marriage but I feel bad that she knows how I feel and doesn't care!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I have a wife whom we have 5 children, I left and upon return my wife left and live with the her former boyfriend, there was no fight between us but she left because I was not home and she find the exboyfriend and they connect back again, her reason ...

I messed up again, or maybe for the 11th time! Advice on how to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I'm 20 about to be 21 she's 17 about to be 18 We meet each other in high school We worked together for atleast a year I was dating a girl Broke up with her to be with the girl I'm currently with Then broke Up with her and go back with the o...

I'm unable to forget my married friend and I unsure of what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - I'm confused , please help me out. I have been married for 8 years, but I moved out to my parents place within a year an half with my son due to history of domestic violence. I have not been in touch with my husband but we stay married stil...

Is flirting cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

5 March 2016 (M) - Where do I begin? Basically I am a flirty person by nature, and I never really had a problem with that, I have my fun, mess around, and never really have anything that lasts. However, just over a year ago now I met a girl who I really fell for. We ...

I feel I need to discuss the contact my girlfriend had with my best friend while I was away, in order to rebuild trust!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

4 March 2016 (M) - When I was overseas last year my best friend began texting my girlfriend and making excuses to call around and visit, they both didn't tell me at the time, just before I got back my gf told me about it, she said some texts where inappropriate ...

Will he go through with his secret online dating thing, and meet up with them? Should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - Hey, I'm in a bad situation at the moment and don't know what to do. Ok, so my partner is VERY secretive about his laptop and phone(yet expects my codes!) and today he went out, anyway, I decided to do something wrong, I know, I opened his lap...

Should I ask my LDR's relative more questions about his cheating with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - My current LDR's brother's wife has just hinted to me that my boyfriend was cheating with his ex while he was dating me a year ago. My LDR boyfriend's brother recently got married and I traveled to visit during the wedding and got to know his brot...

I'd been seeing a co-worker who does have a girlfriend and now he's blocked me, is blanking me and has told everyone at work everything! How do I approach this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

1 March 2016 (F) - I have been seeing this guy from work since Mid December (I know it's risky and a 'no go' with colleagues from work, but there's something about him I like, and he admitted he likes me too, and when we were out on our Christmas Night Out we ended up ...

Boyfriend wants to continue being friends with her but it upsets me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

1 March 2016 (F) - I'm looking for pretty open minded advice here so bare with me lol. My boyfriend and I were together for about 4 years. We had a great relationship but towards the end we had some difficulties outside of our relationship that we couldn't really ...