My story, all I have been through and how it may help you.

A male age , Andyrobert writes:

My wife cheated on me and it hurt me in ways i never thought i could be hurt. I felt so many emotions get distroyed and come alive at the same time. I wanted to know what caused this. Why she did it. It all boils down to: It was not my fault. She knew what she was doing and that it would hurt me, but that didn't stop her. I wanted to kick her out of my live, but didn't. I lived with the pain untill I decided there is nothing that what she did i could change. There is nothing i could do to change but me. Poeple cheat all the time thats why so many people are on this forum. Any one thats cheats are weak, fucked up and stupid. If you are cheating or thinking about it STOP. You don't want to become what my wife is. Some one who has bagage to carry and be untrusted. Who has hurt someone who did not deserve the hurt. In 4 months I just had to let it go before it distroyed me. Grow and learn to speak softly, don't argue and make the other person in your life never have a reason to forget you thats what i did. Now she's all in and I know I am the better person. You will too. Remember you are the better person and they will never forget what they did. You can't change them, but you have to let it go for your self. I was not you. Cry in the rain. Walk with your head high. For what they did/doing is not about you, you didn't hold a gun to their head and say do it. Become the better person and live.

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