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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How can I stop my trust issues from a past breakup from ending my new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I had a really bad break up with my ex, and I'm worried the damage it caused me will end in me sabotaging my new relationship. The relationship ended by my then boyfriend of 6 years bringing home a girl he managed at work. I found them curle...

I want both men but can't have them both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

28 July 2016 (F) - I have been married for 3 years, but the past year and a half, my husband completely neglected me and took me for granted. I tried my best to save our relationship by trying to go out more with him, talking to him, looking sexy for him, finding out ...

What are some good tips and ideas to help get started on repairing the trust I broke with my husband when I cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I have cheated on my husband and I told him about it, it broke him completely and he is just hanging on by a thread with what little piece of heart he has left. He feels that our whole marriage of 2 years has been a lie because I broke that vow a...

My married BF says I worry too much that he is going to be unfaithful to me. Is it all my fault?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi. I've been dating a married man for 3 years now. We have incredible sex together and lots of fun. We get along very well and are sexually perfect for each other. I care a lot for him. He cares for me. However, my insecurity issues ...

Should I ask him if he is messing about with his old flings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, I got back with my ex who promised he would like to have a serious relationship with me and would not mess with other gals again. My rule is he can have his friends but he can't cheat - just be honest and he is free to go. Don...

My boyfriend has many female friends and I am jealous!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - I am extremely jealous when it comes to my boyfriend that it scares me! We don't live together but, I end up stalking him on social media. Seeing if he is liking other girls pictures on Instagram etc. He's French so, I end up translating every ...

Cheating. How do I respond to this? I really loved this girl, and was going to propose to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - Well me and my gf are both 26 years old and have been with each other for the past 4 years. Met her in my last year of College and have been with her since. We started living together about 3 months of getting together and everything was lovely, ...

Is it wrong that my distant cousin and I share passionate times together? She has a Bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I love my distant cousin. We have made love and it feels like the most beautiful thing I have ever done in my life. I don't even feel guilty about it. I have had meaningless sex with other girls before but with her its just amazing and I cuddle her ...

Recently found out about a fling my Bf had. Is it wrong to want to know these things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I recently found out my boyfriend had a fling with a girl on holiday not long after we started going out. We had been together for a couple of months, and we were still in the early stages of our relationship. We have been together for 3 y...

How can I find someone else at my age? Why is she ripping my family apart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I think my husband of 12 years is having an affair. Myself and my hubby are in the same job but work at different locations. One of our colleagues told me she was concerned about how much help and time he was spending with a client. Anytime s...

My boyfriend is on a hook up site while I am away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts, So I'm on a 6 week family holiday away from my boyfriend and I noticed that he had several emails from a hookup site called localblack^^^^s.com Before anyone asks, I wasn't snooping. His email inbox is on my phone along with ...

Previously I messed up. What should I do differently this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello. My story is pretty simple. I messed up. Bad. I was with my woman for 6+ years, since we were sophomores in high school. Truth be told I cheated on her. Why? For the longest time I felt like I didn't matter. Like even the littlest things ...

A girl is flirting with my boyfriend. Should I ask him about this girl? Or go see the girl myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for almost 12 months now, and I have been really happy. Everything has been fine until this year, when he was told he had to attend a computer course at a technical college once a week. Since going to col...

I don't want to let go of someone I love but my husband keeps on responding to this girl on line. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been with this man a total of 7 years married for 3 and he unfortunately feel in a web web of lies with one of his friends from another country.. And he sent her inappropriate messages and a video of him self " releaving...

Are the scratches on my boyfriend's chest consistent with cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - Hello everyone. I am having a hard time with a situation I am in. I have nobody to turn to so I am hoping I can get some good advice here. My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. He and I were together a couple of days a...

I am better off out of the relationship but seeing him still hurts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend earlier this year. I was with him for two years and I always suspected he was biopolar or had a personality disorder. He also has issues with alcohol and a temptation for other things too. And i suspect he wasn'...

I am close to breaking point

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I sometimes think my longstanding partner is having an affair with a former friend of mine due to his covert behaviour. I know she is attractive and manipulative and would feel good about herself if she got him to leave me. But i have no proper e...

I hate him but all I want is to be with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I fell in love with the wrong person. I am still young, fresh out of hs and have never been in love until now. We are from a small town in Arizona and happened to cross paths...Well more like he hit on me one day and I reciprocated.It started off ...

Every one she has cheated on me with was a guy. I wonder, what should I do?.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I am a 25 year old stud lesbian I've been with the same woman since we were 16. We are married. She is the love of my life and couldn't picture one minute with out her in my life But we have had are bad times we have both cheated on each other I ...

What to do? He says if I don't work out with both of them then he wants a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - My husband had an affair, after I found out and got past the initial shock, I approached his mistress. Asked her to have a threesome. We did, it went well. It didn't take any of the pain away that I am feeling, like I guess I hoped it would. ...

I love my wife but she is causing me distress. What do I do with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

14 July 2016 (M) - Hello this is my first time to ever post on a relationship site, but have had problems with my wife for many years and have even separated for a year and she made all these promises that things would be different. She has a problem with drinking...

How would you handle seeing this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Hello I asked this question not very long ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-bear-this-deep-hurt.html Thank you again to those who replied you did help a great deal. I have just another question to ask and that should be my fair s...

This guy is still texting her. What do I do now? Valuable suggestions would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

14 July 2016 (M) - I have a gf of 4 years in a long distance committed relationship. i couldnt visit her for a year due to some personal and visa problems which she knows clearly, but we skype daily for hours. Recently i found out she had been cheating on me with her...

I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

11 July 2016 (M) - Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her bre...

How do I bear this deep hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - Thanks in advance to anyone who reads this to help. How do you move forwards after your husband has betrayed your trust? He has, in my eyes, emotionally cheated on me with another woman who he messaged more than he's bothered messaging me in ...

Can't understand why she cheated with a homosexual?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

10 July 2016 (M) - Hi. What does it mean when that my wife has cheated me with a gay guy, and prefers gay friends?...

After being cheated on, I hate myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

9 July 2016 (M) - During my most recent relationship, I got cheated on by my girlfriend. She did it once fairly early in the relationship, and even though I hated the guy before it happened, she claims to be blackout drunk so I forgave her. She cheated again and ...

Saw 6 Condoms in His Travelling Bag

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Please my big brother and sister in the house, Am married for two years now, we have a daughter. Recently my husband job entailed him travelling a lot. He was travelling today and he took six condoms,he ought to be away for 6 days. I saw it in his ...

I'm having trust issues with my girlfriend, is she cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

9 July 2016 (M) - I recently had my phone stop working, so i was using my girlfriends phone to contact people for awhile and she recieved a message of a screen shot of a message she had deleted on her phone. The message was her trying to pick up a guy she met at a...

I am cheating on my current boyfriend with my ex, how do I get out o this love triangle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - I need advice and please bear with me and this long post! So my boyfriend (I'll call him Oliver) and I have been together for 5 months now and we're very happy together. He's sweet as can be and he treats me like a princess. My ex (I'll call him ...

I am involved with a married man and I'm worried he will take up with this other woman who works for him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - No judgment please. I have been having an affair with my married Martial Arts instructor for 2 years now. We still have the most amazing sex and electric chemistry and the relationship is mostly sexual although we both care about each other. I...

All I've met is harsh judgement. But I need advice and some support on what to do in my situation. Help, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - OK first of all please don't judge me on this but I got with my boyfriend while he was still married, he is now separated from his wife and with me. I guess he had fell out of love by the time he met me. There is 20 years difference between ...

What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's ...

I'm just confused? Is he either low key in love with me or obsessed or just crazy? What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - I don't want to make this too long. Basically, I dated this dude, it was long distance. Blah blah. Let's call him “C” . C” and I dated from like, November 2014 till March 2015. We were basically the perfect couple and I couldn't go a minute, let...

False rumor. Then cheating.I forgave him. Am I a mug? Have I done the right thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months now. Then this weekend a rumour spread about me and another guy which wasn't true, I told my boyfriend about said rumour before it got to him by other means and he told me he believed me. He de...

How do I get him to stop jumping for anything his wife wants and see that his wife is trying to control him?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - I am married and have been dating a married man for 3 yrs.Neither of us are having sex with our spouses. He says he doesn't love her but if she wants to do something and we have plans he just doesn't call me to let me know. He waits until after ...

Should I meet up with my ex boyfriend ? He still has his girlfriend and I broke up with my boyfriend, but he doesn't know that

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

2 July 2016 (F) - Hey aunts! I need advice So I have an ex boyfriend who broke my heart. The relationship was amazing but due to him losing his job, he had to move right away. He said he didn't want to lose me and how he would always want to be with me but we...

I let personal issues destroy my relationship and I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

1 July 2016 (M) - I met my ex 2.5 years ago. She came into my life during a really dark time and I made a huge mistake during it. In short, my self esteem took a major hit for a while and I ended up using tinder to swipe on photos in order to make myself feel good, ...