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writes:HelloI asked this question not very long ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-bear-this-deep-hurt.html Thank you again to those who replied you did help a great deal. I have just another question to ask and that should be my fair share of questioning done!So I am still hurting but moving forwards. I just want to know, how would any of you handle seeing this woman? I shall be accompanying my husband to an event and she will be there. Just ignore her? Make small talk? I'm not angry enough to say anything to her, but I would appreciate some perspective on how othere would feel in that situation and how you might act/deal with it.Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2016): This is the OP (I lost the code to get back to my question). It was flirty, overly friendly and familiar but no suggestion of meeting up alone - he was blind to the fact her listing her dating problems at 11pm at night for example was not appropriate.
I no longer feel like being a complete bitch to her, but I did want to lol. I am generally the happiest, kindest person to anyone I meet and being a bitch to someone is not something I would do often. Ivyblue I love the 'grace stamps out cheap' and that's a nice life moral to live by :-)
Aunt honesty you're right about it would make things too awkward, and deep down I know that's not me really.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (15 July 2016):
 Personally I would be keeping an eye on his and her interaction and hopefully he is sensible enough to not bother with her, however you make yourself as gorgeous as you possibly can and 'IF' you cross paths be polite and brief. Other than that I wouldn't give her any consideration at all. Grace stamps out cheap any day.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 July 2016):
 It really depends on how far they took there conversations, was it friendly with a little flirting? A lot of flirting? Or suggesting to meet up behind your back? Sexual? the reason I ask is because it can play an important role in the way you respond.
If you don't want to say anything to her about what has happened I would be polite, say hello and leave it at that, if you ignore her it could make you and whoever is in your company feel awkward.
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