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writes:Hi agony aunts,So I'm on a 6 week family holiday away from my boyfriend and I noticed that he had several emails from a hookup site called localblack^^^^s.com Before anyone asks, I wasn't snooping. His email inbox is on my phone along with my own because a few months back I helped him with a couple of emails and he's well aware of this fact. He didn't mind because he didn't use his email much. So its plain stupidity on his part, thinking that I wouldn't know!I don't know what to do about this. I'm black so I'm not worried about him desiring something different. It's the fact that 2 weeks into my holiday he's doing this!! I logged into his account and he hasn't sent any messages.It's really out of character, should I ignore it and forget? Thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 July 2016):
 I would ignore it till you get back. That simple. YOU are on vacation and should ENJOY your time. LOG out of his e-mail and don't go snooping no more.
My bet is he will try and pull the "oh that wasn't me it's spam"...
For the next 4 weeks you can think over if this is acceptable in a relationship or not, and act accordingly.
For me? This would not be OK. Don't care about the color of the person he is trying to hook up with, but the FACT that he is trying to hook up with someone, anyone... that is a deal-breaker for me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 July 2016):
 Do you think you are able to ignore it and forget about it? I know I wouldn't be able to, I would want to know why he is on a hook up site. Generally people go on there to have a look and see what is available, surely if he is in a loving relationship with you then he shouldn't be looking to hook up with older women? The color of there skin should not matter, he obviously wants to look at hot mothers and well he has found himself a site, maybe he did not message any girls on this site, but maybe he has found another? How long have you both been together? I think you should ask him about it once you return from your holiday.
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