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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I feel so guilty about leaving my abusive ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I previously asked for advice regarding a relationship I was in for 3 years with a guy I lived with who was controlling and violent. It went on for a number of years and last December I cheated on him with a guy who had been keen on me for a wh...

I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

30 September 2017 (M) - I want too break up with my girlfriend because i cant satisfy her sexually, ive asked her about it and she claims it could be better but she doesnt know what she wants when i ask her how, i want her to be happy both psychically and mentally. I know...

How to forget about your ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Hi me and my ex boyfriend resently break up two months ago we were together from last year January we were on and off .. we broke up four times because people told him things I never said about him and he was believing them he block me on everything ...

How do I get out of this planned weekend getaway? I've decided I don't trust him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - Hi i was seeing soneone 2 yrs ago and he started seeing someone else. He denied it and lied left right and centre then he got her pregnant. During all this time he hasnt let go of me. I told him i was not prepared to be a bit on rhe side. Now they ...

Its been over with my boyfriend, I'm pregnant by someone else but I'm afraid if I end things he will try and kill himself

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

26 September 2017 (F) - I've been trying to end my relationship for the last 8 months without feeling a massive amount of guilt. The situation I'm in has became incredibly messy and I just feel very broken by what has happened over this passed year. I've been with...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

He says he will never marry me because of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what to...

He was still receiving photos from his ex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - So I found out that my boyfriend of 9 months still received pictures from his ex. He knew that it bothers me everytime she send texts, call or send selfie pictures. However, I do understand that my bf has no control of what his ex is sending him. ...

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

She's going into an arranged marriage, unhappy with the man. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am an Indian. In our culture arrange marriage system is prevalent. Recently my best friend got engaged to someone. Her parents found that guy for her. Its been an year but not a day passed when she didn't complain about him. She always tells me ...

Is this something I can fix by correcting a few actions in our relationship? Do I give her space and trust that she will end up with me? What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years recently told me that she likes a guy from work as as more than friends but is unsure about what to do. She said she loves me and she doesn't love him because it is too early to tell. She said she recognizes that it is unfair to ...

Heart says carry on, head says we are now toxic! Advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2649 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - Hi. So my 8 year relationship seems to be at its end and I've been given an ultimatum. We split up or we stay together and try to make it work. Some background, we are a young couple, we have been together from a young age and have been through ...

We've had rough times but seem to want only us! But his marijuana use is a problem for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - Hi, everyone. Hope everyone is doing well. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And we seem to love each other so much. And i sat seem becuz we say we love each other to the max but we do many things to hurt each other. And find it ...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

18 September 2017 (?) - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

My ex came back into my life only to leave again!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2649 days ago

17 September 2017 (F) - He reached out to me after about 6 months of not speaking, during that time he was dating someone else. We ended up meeting up to talk, and we had great conversation. He apologized for things that wet wrong with us and opened up to me that "he just ...

Ex-boyfriend (considerably older) left me for someone else while being on holiday. I don't understand it and am now thinking of asking for closure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Hi, will try to keep this as short as I can. A little background: A few months ago I met a charming older man (49 years old) and what began as a short romance started developing into something more serious and longer, with him (he lived in a diffe...

Will this breakup mend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I've just split with my ex a week ago over argument. I have an 11-month-old baby. When I asked if any chance getting back together he says don't know. Then when I ask well would u like to he says I ain't saying no. Maybe down the line. I'm so con...

Feeling the pain but finding it hard to let go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - Hi, I went through an extremely bad breakup lately and it has left me reeling worse than any other breakup and has shaken my confidence, as well as my desire to date. But the worst is that I still contain feelings for the girl even though she did ...

Am I wrong to draw a line under this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for almost two years and in March of this year my father got really sick from cancer. He passed away sadly at the end of April. The guy I was with was a complete ass towards me when my father had passed away. And during April I ...

Am I moving on too fast? And how and when do I tell the new guy about my past and the fact that my ex still lives in the same house as me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I have recently split with my partner of 8 years , we have fallen out of love and we both thought it was the best decision to cut it off. He still lives in the same house as me though in seperate rooms and he still helps with shopping/lifts etc - ...

What's this guy trying to say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

12 September 2017 (F) - What's this guy playing at? I've been seeing a guy for about 3 months as a no strings attached, it's sort of become FWB as we've gotten to know on another. I've never thought he's wanted more as he's never suggested a date or anything. We hav...

Why do many lesbian relationships end by going on the rebound?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

12 September 2017 (F) - I've got a general question about relationships and wonder if anyone else can relate to what I'm going through. I am a 33 year old lesbian. I've dated women since I was 18, but one thing I have never understood about women, particularly lesbians, is ...

I moved to be nearer to her, now she has broken up with me.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I'm fifty years old and moved over a year ago to be near my girlfriend she is 48 and I thought she was the love of my life. Suddenly she started saying she was busy all of the time and tired So I havnt seen her in two weeks. Tonight she broke up ...

My crush is being weird!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

10 September 2017 (M) - last week I ended pulling a gorgeous female while I was out with my friends, and we seem to have a lot in common with each other, she always liked me at school, but for some reason we didn't end up getting together, now we are, she sent me a friend ...

I had a friend check on what he told me and he cut ties with me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I met a guy online 4 months ago. All along he has been telling me about the particular company he works for and has talked about work at great length because he works really long hours. I have a friend who works for the same company. I told her ...

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

Heartbroken even though I dumped him and now I want him to chase me and get me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - I need your help folks. I was seeing a guy who was coming out of a marriage. He was single for about 8 months and we started seeing each other. Both of us knew each other locally and we were both surprised when we got to know each other and ...

I often think fondly of my ex but don't want to get back with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. So I'll start with my ex. He was a lovely guy but there was no sex or passion. we were together a number of years but broke up a while ago now. i was okay. we are 'friends' but don't ever talk. I'm now with a new partner and thin...

I feel always destined to be different, to be alone, and on the periphery.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2599 days ago

8 September 2017 (F) - Please can ask your thoughts on something aunts? I'm a lady in my mid 30s, professionally accomplished and financially independent. At work I'm well respected and I get on well with most people. In fact I get on well with lots of people outside...

Job not how I thought, girlfriend dumping me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

7 September 2017 (M) - I'm having problem at work and I'm not enjoying it currently, ive had time off because of the stress it's caused and my assistant boss doesn't seem to want to leave me alone and he's up my backside every five minutes. I work for a sports company and ...

Should I be honest about kissing my friend, or leave it in the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

6 September 2017 (M) - I can't tell if I'm over reacting about this situation and I'd really appreciate some insight. Here's a bit of a back story... Late '16, early '17 I met this guy and we really liked one another to the point where we started developing a sem...

My girlfriend broke up with me but now wants back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks back but couldn't give me a reason for wanting out. We have been in a gay relationship together for 5 years with many ups and downs and this was just another time of her saying she didn't want the relation...

A fight, zero contact for 3 weeks. He should apologize, not me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

3 September 2017 (F) - I left my BF 3 weeks ago after a fight. There's been zero contact since I left. I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. Yes, I'm the one who left, however he was the one who was in the wrong and should apologize. I'm not sure how to ...

What does my boyfriend mean by all his confusing statements?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

3 September 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles!!! So I'm in a bind. A month ago my bf and I had a huge disagreement with one another. We did not talk sometime after. About a week ago he contacts me apologizing and giving me confusing signs. First he says I want to be with ...

Does he want to get back with me because he couldn't find anyone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

2 September 2017 (F) - Hi aunts, and thank you in advance for any advice you give. I was in a relationship which finished some four months back. We were together just over six months prior to the break up, and the break up was painful but amicable with no nastiness. ...

We're on an experimental break for two weeks given the LDR and my gf seems fine but I'm miserable and paranoid that I'm going to lose her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

1 September 2017 (M) - Sorry for asking again so soon, I just have nobody to talk to anymore and my problems are bothering me a bit. My life's in a focal point right now and I need blunt non friend and family advice.Thanks. Long story short my Girlfriend for over 1 and a ...

At what point am I allowed to ask to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

1 September 2017 (F) - I broke up with a long distance boyfriend I had for 1 1/2 years about one month ago. The distance wasn't going to change and I was going through a difficult emotional time where I needed him to if not physically be there for me, emotionally be there ...