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Archived questions from: June, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Bore out on my job is killing me. I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

30 June 2020 (M) - Hi all, I would really appreciate some advice. I feel trapped in the office and I have recently discovered that I most probably suffer from something called a « bore-out » and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t hate the work I do. ...

When we are together he gives me just enough attention to feel wanted, but otherwise I am ghosted.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

30 June 2020 (F) - I caved and went back to my ex boyfriend. He claims he loves me and our baby. He still doesn’t help out with her. He will be consistent on communication. Then it will be days before he texts me. We are having sex again. Which is not good at all. I ...

I know I did the right thing in breaking it off, so why do I feel so confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1640 days ago

28 June 2020 (F) - So I dont really have anyone I can talk to as I've never really spoken about the reasons why my relationship ended. I'm feeling a bit lost and confused and lonely at the moment and very scared of the future. I was in a relationship for...

I am facing a weird situation at work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

28 June 2020 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I seem to be facing a weird situation at work. And any insights would be of great help. I am a mid senior worker with several years of work experience and I am decently qualified (couple of degrees in finance), currently ...

S this lockdown angst or anxiety or have I just hit the eject button?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1642 days ago

26 June 2020 (F) - I am going a bit crazy! It's as if the normal and rational part of me has just left the premises.. Is this lockdown angst or anxiety or have I just hit the eject button? Kiddies happy and silly laughter normally makes me smile but today it's drivi...

I'm feeling confused and lonely and wonder if I should give up my life dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1645 days ago

26 June 2020 (F) - Hey Cupid’s, I need some advice at the min about feeling stuck in a bit of a rut. I moved to London in October and haven’t really made any friends yet, especially now during lockdown! I am really struggling with feeling lonely, and what’s worse...

I need to stand on my own and raise my son but I don't know where to start

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1644 days ago

22 June 2020 (F) - I need some advice and opinion on how to earn money and be financially dependent as a single mom. Perhaps job that i can do at home while taking care of my son. I got no experience in working formally because i help my parents before im married. Im ...

Is it normal that my boyfriend's 6 year old sleeps naked with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

22 June 2020 (F) - My boyfriend Face Timed me the other night. I the back ground his 6 year old daughter was standing there naked. I was kind of shocked because I don’t let my daughter who is 8 do this. She also sleeps nude with him. Is this normal?...

I no longer feel desperate for things I didn't have. How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

21 June 2020 (F) - Hi. Im a 28yr old girl. I have been single throughout my life. I had very less paying jobs in past. No good relations with family. All alone, depressed and anxious over last 5 yrs. There was a time when i was too desparate to have a boyfriend and i ...

I want to move on from a relationship that left me broken.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1653 days ago

17 June 2020 (F) - This relationship has left me broken and I really don't know how to move forward. I was with him on and off for the past year and it was the best time of my life. We have so much in common, got along beautifully and never fought. He has a young son ...

How do I act straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1655 days ago

15 June 2020 (M) - Alright. I'm 15 year old guy who HAS to fake straight but apparently I'm not good at it. I don't know when I figured it all out. I know in kindergarten I had sort of a thing for this kid in school and another kid on my just didn'tblock but it was ...

I've been in abusive relationships and worry the problem might have been me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1641 days ago

14 June 2020 (F) - The last four years of my life have been a world wind. I was in an abusive relationship which he was charged twice for assault and I still never had the power to leave. The last 2 year of the relationship (what I know of) I was cheated on ...

How will my parents react when I tell them I want to meet a person I met online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1657 days ago

13 June 2020 (F) - A few months ago I met a guy online, we instantly hit it off and spend hours a day texting and face timing each other. He is sweet and makes me laugh. He recently mentioned meet once this pandemic is over and the boarders open back up (I’m ...

I'm pregnant, havent told hubby nor my sister in law

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

12 June 2020 (F) - I recently found out that I’m about 7 weeks pregnant. I haven’t told my husband because I don’t know how he would react. He Lost his job because of this pandemic. My sister in law has also been trying for a baby for many years and I don’t know how ...

So worried about the safety of my friends baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1645 days ago

11 June 2020 (F) - Hi there. Such a great site with wide answers. I am in a quandary here. I have a friend in her mid thirties who is a new mom. She is an alcoholic and before she decided to get pregnant after consulting with her boyfriend I begged her to get her d...

My friend is icing me out for a stupid reason...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1660 days ago

11 June 2020 (F) - My friends and I went out for drinks a week ago to celebrate our graduation. My school gives out informal academic awards for the best student of each subject along with our respite cards, and of my friends began complaining , unprompted, about how ...

I don't know how to deal with the angry man my partner has become.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1661 days ago

11 June 2020 (F) - Hello everyone, i just need your opinion guys. Im with my partner for 5 years now. For First 3 years we are fine.. but slowly is changing. He used to be a good hard working man, but then suddenly it changes. Last year he stop working, he said he ...

A long term friendship has become exhausting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1661 days ago

10 June 2020 (F) - Me and my friend have been friends for about 8 years. But lately I’m finding being her friend exhausting. She gets herself into silly situations that I have to help her through or to get her out of it. We lived together for 3 years at one sta...

I want to feel cared for and loved but I fear the love is gone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1648 days ago

9 June 2020 (F) - Am I being irrational? I love my boyfriend but honestly, it’s our son that’s keeping us together because I am not happy in our relationship. The reasons why I am not happy may seem to be selfish so that’s why I want to get some advice from you guys, ...

The lease has been signed but I am now paying more than previously agreed to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1660 days ago

9 June 2020 (F) - Hello everyone, I am currently living with 4 roommates in a large city on the East coast. Needless to say, rent is extremely expensive and it's hard to find an apartment that isn't super small and has everything we want in a place. One of...

Even though I am lonely I don't want to be in a relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1658 days ago

9 June 2020 (M) - Hi all. Recently at my college I became interested in a girl in my class, and she became interested in me. We got to know each other, and eventually we started dating. The relationship seemed as if it was going smoothly, however it only lasted a...

I'm nervous about becoming a single mother to my twins.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

8 June 2020 (F) - Hi I have just broken up with my partner of 7 years things hadn’t been right with us for months before I ended it we have Twins together were still living together for the time being due to being on lockdown I am going to look for somewhere for me ...

I'm sick of babysitting an immature co worker

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1662 days ago

8 June 2020 (F) - How do I tell my coworker that I am not here to babysit her sadness for her or to control the capacity she has for emotions. Everyone in the office literally caters to her when she pouts and screams. She’s laid on the floor at one point to get ...

Struggling to raise three kids, partner is not helping and I am pregnant again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1661 days ago

8 June 2020 (F) - Hello, I'm a mother of 3, with one on the way. I'm not sure if its hormones, or what, but I'm feeling really down lately. Honestly, I didnt want a 4th, but not having the baby isn't an option. I'd never think of adoption, so I've kind of dec...

My relationship needs a fix or it is doomed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1665 days ago

6 June 2020 (F) - Hi I was just looking for peoples opinions on this my partner smokes weed and spends a lot of money on it we have 1 child together when we first met he only had 1 joint on a night to help him sleep we’ve been together now for 9 years we are ...

Should I talk to my neighbor about noise even though we've never met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1646 days ago

4 June 2020 (F) - Hello, I live in a students residence. I was trying to sleep, but I heard some noises coming from my neighbor's room. We don't know each other, never met. I am not sure if he is having sex with someone, or his bed is just very squeaky someho...

I feel I am being used and am unsure what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

2 June 2020 (F) - I rented a bedrm to a man 2 1/2 yrs ago. We were just room mates, not lovers. I am 30 yrs older than him.But before he left to go to prison he ask me to marry him and I did. I sent him money and letters the entire time he was gone. And when he got ...