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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I find out who a phone number belongs to? They keep calling/texting but I don't know who it is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, Is there any way you can do a reverse phone look up for a US phone number? FREE? I am pretty sure it could be a mobile phone. Any FREE sites, services, resources? This phone number from Florida keeps calling me and texting me...

What am I doing wrong? I am homeless, pregnant and I think the other women in the shelter do not like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Am a new immigrant. Came to live in the u.s with my sister 3 months ago but she kicked me out onto the street after facing the realities of a pregnant woman..i.e throwing up and bring generally slow and demotivated. She knew I was pregnant bef...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

How can I stop obsessing about what I did 18 months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I have a bit of a rumination problem, and have been a big over thinker since being a child. I am torn apart at the minute over guilt I am carrying from an incident that happened a year and a half ago. My par...

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he ...

Will he really choose love over religion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each ...

What could be the reason I am so consistently declined for jobs I apply for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

29 May 2015 (?) - Hi there I started to feel sad and upset with my situation. I have a degree in event management and also worked for 2 years for a well known company with good money too. Since I had the baby I left the job because I was commuting long distance. ...

Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company ...

The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...

My boyfriend was acting grumpy/irritable towards me so I went home. Now he's even more upset! Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I feel so aggravated right now. I hope someone can give me some advice.My boyfriend and I have been dating a year. We have our fun times but he can be quite a bear to deal with at times. Very moody. I chalk it up too him working a swing shift. I am ...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

Is my BF jealous of this other guy who is also a dance instructor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - MY BF is a dance instructor. I used to dance in his class as a student. Now this other dance teacher took over his class who is male. My BF puts this guy down at every turn in front of me. Not sure why. Says the guy thinks he's all that but he ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

How can I ignore their inappropriate flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - Hello. I have a question that has been bugging me. To explain, it has something to do with a female student in my college Psychology class. I have no idea how old she is. I think she is 18 or 19 like I am. I am also female. But anyway, she and my ...

He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...

My husband is pressuring me for a threesome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi..We r married not very happily but married for 6yrs..I feel n it's true my husband was never true with me.no doubt he loves me n kids but he's very confused b character less person.since 5 yrs he's pressuring me for three some.every time he wants ...

He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...

He made me feel special ... and then he let me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Last week, a guy told me that he liked me. I didn't really have feelings for him, but now when I think about it, he makes me happy and I think I'm starting to like him.. The problem is, this week our friends started playing a game of 'who you'd ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

My Bf is depressed. How can I help him and help our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is depressed. We have had an amazing relationship, no arguments and lots of fun. We have been together for 7 months but on month 3 we switched into a long distance relationship and it was really good until April when he started ...

Life after swinging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - Hi Just wondered how people that have swung return to normal monogamous sex with their partners? I'm a gangbang host and just worry sex will bore me after if I ever return to normal sex....

Is she trying to test me? How do I respond? My online Gf sent me two pictures of herself. She wants comment, but one picture is very unflattering.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

23 May 2015 (M) - I asked my gf to send me her new pictures (of herself). I met her online. The problem is she send me two pictures. One is good and the other one is looking bad. She asked me that how those pictures look, to me. I'm really scared to say that "t...

Almost 9 years together. How should I tell my now nine year old son, that his stepfather will not be in his life after I breakup with his stepfather?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man, and I am confused. I want to break it off with him because he is not a good father to his kids. He has not seen them in two years and is not paying his child support. As a matter of fact, he stopped working ...

If they arent legally his, should they be his heirs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 years, living together for 7, with no plans for marriage. That part is fine with me actually. I have 2 sons who are currently 15 and 18, so BF has pretty much raised them and is their Father figure. ...

Can someone explain this co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My male co worker refuses my help with at work. I don't really ask him if he needs help but if I walk by him he will wait for about 5 or 10 minutes until someone else comes along. It's really simple things too, like can I help watch his class or ...

Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...

My husband has been very ill and now has depression. But his anger is affecting me. How am I supposed to put up with all his changed behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - 6 months ago my husband has emergency surgery. He had been suffering with ulcerative colitis and it had gotten so bad it was life threatening. He had a horrendous recovery and now has a ileostomy at 26 and a surgical hernia. He suffers badly wi...

How can I come to terms with, accept, and overcome my jealous feelings towards a woman who has done better in life than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - My problem is some kinda jelousy. I am 52 y old now and I am an artist. I did very well on my career,but had some very powerful people that wanted to exchange some favors with me,which I never did. My career went to a higher level,but in som...

Why is he now so much more responsive, in a positive way, to everything I say now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hi, me and this guy have been friends for 7 months.. We talk everyday but our conversations were short but recently, the conversations have been long and he laughs at nearly everything i say. whereas before he never did that and i'm more happ...

What does privacy in a marriage mean to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Thinking In regards to a traditional old fashioned marriage like your grandparents had/have, what does privacy in a marriage mean to you? What is considered snooping into other peoples things? Examples? What is considered snooping as far as social...

Is it possible to love someone and NEVER be jealous?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Is it possible to care deeply for or even love someone and NEVER be jealous? I have always thought that being jealous meant being afraid to lose someone. That is because you love or care for them so much. And it is a feeling which overcomes us, wh...

Feeling stressed by people's negative outlooks re job market. I'm majoring in Dental Hygiene. But I am hearing that the job market is experiencing no jobs in this field. what else could I study allied to dental where jobs may be easier to find?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hello- I am currently in college majoring in Dental Hygiene. I have been stressed out due to negative feed back people have been telling me. I have considered ultra sound tech, and surgical tech as well and just not sure which path to choose. ...

My 17 year old daughter has told me she is bi-sexual. I've accepted it, but I am very upset by this news. What's the best way for me to go forward?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Yesterday, my 17 year old daughter told me she is bi-sexual. I have noticed for a couple of months that she has been very distant from everyone except me. I asked her to tell me what was wrong and she eventually told me. I am very proud of th...

Why is he so against unblocking me & why is he still with this other woman? What does she have that I don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hi, I had a bad fall out with my ex a few months back over another girl he was seeing on the sly. I was ready to forgive him as we were only casually seeing each other - but he had already blocked me by then. The thing is - 6 months down the l...

I'm considering quitting my job before I go on vacation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - I've been working part time at a job for 4 years now and I'm starting to become very annoyed and bored with it. Also, both of my managers are assholes and treats me like shit, despite me being one of the best and most hardworking employees there. I...

Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names for the women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I was reading some other posts here and it got me thinking. Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names? I can't really repeat the titles as children may read her but even the biggest most popular sites have titles that refe...

Is it time to end this relationship? He only seems to care about getting sex for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Hi guys, I am here to share a problem that I am going through. My relationship with my boyfriend is going through a very rough patch, and I want to know what exactly should I do in this situation. I am dating this guy and he is my first and a...

Why is the UK obsessed with drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

18 May 2015 (M) - Having lived here in London for my whole life, I went through the usual British routine of going to the pub and getting wasted every weekend right through my teens and twenties, but since I turned 30 I've found no enjoyment in getting drunk anymore ...

I'm feeling insecure. Almost three years datiing and we know each other very well. Have we hit the comfort zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I'm scared. This is my first long relationship and I don't know if we've hit a comfort zone or if we're falling apart. We've been together 2 years and 10 months. He says I love you but not all the time like he used to (every day). It feels l...

Always young and physically perfect: Why do the porn mags and sites predominately use these type of women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Lots of questions from women worried that they don't meet mens beauty standards and the usual answers say something along the lines of men are forgiving of flaws, women are their own worst enemies etc But when one looks at the images men consume ...

Is this touch flirty or friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - If a man and a woman were standing opposite but close to each other and he had his arm reached out and his fingers resting on her waist what would you think? Is that flirty or just friendly? ...

How can I ever get over my weight issues? It makes me feel so insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - I am really self conscious about how my body looks. I was extremely overweight (I was 14 st 6lb on a 5 ft tall frame) I have been losing weight for about three years I got down to 11st 2lb last year but sadly I let things slip and shot up to 12 st ...

Where am I going wrong with men? One bad experience after another (:

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - Hi guys, short question (hopefully). Where am I going wrong with men???? I know I'm only young, but the majority of experiences I have had have been bad and the men have done me over. I know I'm quite a nice person I think I trust people so...

I am a virgin, but I don't understand this: How people can have sex with the same person over and over again and not get bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

15 May 2015 (M) - I am still a virgin so I have no knowledge of such things, but it seems to me that If I had sex with the same girl all the time then things would get very boring, kind of like watching the same movie over and over and over again. Assuming that nei...

Could it be that my partner and I just cannot communicate on the same wave length? How to fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3515 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - Today my partner figured something was up with me and we talked for about an hour. I told him I felt we weren't communicating and I wasn't feeling the relationship. He told me hes been trying hard to organize for us to go to the movies etc l...

I'm embarressed by my body, how will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I've always been insecure about my body ever since I was a teenager. This has made me paranoid and nervous about ever finding a boyfriend. I just don't feel like my body is 'normal' by society's standards. I don't have the nice body that so man...

She asked me to do a project for her...after she already asked somebody else to do the same thing!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

15 May 2015 (M) - Hi, I am a single male in NYC. I know this woman who is very pretty and married. Let's call her S. I guess you can say we are friendly acquaintances. She has done things which have offended me in the past, like planning to meet up and then canceli...

How do I get my lazy bf to clean up after him self?? Bitching hasn't helped.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I've been dating my.boyfriend for over 2 years and we live together I'm 21 and he's 22. We used to have fun together, do stuff together, go everywhere together. But now all he does is sit at home stay in side and play his stupid video games. He don'...

She is 42 years old. What do I need to consider when I go on our first date together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - Modnote: later correction made to title based on followup post by the Original Poster .................. Hello everyone I am dyslexic with a So if my English is hard to reaped I apologize. Well everyone I been out from seven years I dated wom...

Do you think it is a reasonable action on my part to ask my boyfriend for a loan? I don't think I can ask anyone else

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - I'm a young female who is currently going through a struggle financially. I had lost my job and am in the process of finding a new one. I've been in a serious relationship with a great man for over 3 years. He has a great job and does good for hi...