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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My husband is obese and has health issues. Should I leave him or continue to try and support him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My marriage is suffering due to my husbands excessive weight gain, should I leave him or continue to try and support him and hope that things will get better? We've been together for 11 years and have two young children. I love him dearly but ...

Is it time to bring this to a close? Seems I am now just a text friend and there has been no apology.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - May I ask for advice I fell out with a guy I got close to He gave me the impression he was finished with the person who he was with but was not the case as he has bought into a flat and had to see out the contract Anyway because I felt le...

Any advice for a lonely old man of 79 who likes to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - Any advise for an elderly man who is lonely and likes to masturbate...

A psychiatrist told me I am not mad, (when I asked him) but is it possible to feel something for an historical person who lived in another era? What is this feeling called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Since I was a child, I was always afraid about become mad. Two years ago I learned about the existence of a russian man who lived between the second part of XIX century and the start of 10's. I was enchanted for his behaviour and pe...

Is working on these two commercials together ruining our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a film major and I am in art school. This year, my uncle offered us a job doing 2 commercials for a product. its been going poorly and ruining our relationship. My boyfriend feels as if he i...

My Mother's said she's a married man's mistress. How can I respond and preserve our mother-daughter relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mother told me recently she has been a mistress to a married man for the last 5 years. She got involved with him when my dad was terminally ill and told me about it after he passed away. She is still seeing him and wants to ...

If you have to tell yourself that you're not a lesbian does that mean you're hiding (your sexual preference) or not accepting it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - If you have to tell yourself you're not a lesbian, does that mean you're hiding it and just not accepting it? Because I keep telling myself that i'm not since I can't stop having compulsive, obsessive thoughts about my sexuality. I know. I KNOW...

At 26 years of age, why am I now having strong gay thoughts now, when I don't think I'm gay nor bi-sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - Hi, I am a little confused about myself sexually. Normally I like women, I find them very pretty and attractive, face, hair and body shape etc the usually heterosexual stuff. I am even shy around women but I find whenever I am aroused, I always end ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

Is it ok to get married thinking it might not work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I love my fiance to the end of the world and back. I am as sure as one can be that in the depths of his soul lies a a volcanic love for me too. I couldn't be happier and I wouldn't change a hair on his head; neither would he on mine I believe. ...

Am I unusual for wanting to be dressed feminine ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - what do most women think of men who like to wear female clothing? I curiously started wearing bras and panties way back in the 1960's when due to not having enough room in the bedroom shared by my two older sisters some of their clothes were stored ...

I feel I really don't deserve my partner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - I feel I really dont deserve my partner. I have been with him six years, and I have treated him appallingly. I have anger issues and hormone problems and he has bore the brunt of it for years. I have been so jealous and possessive, how he stuck it ...

My manager's crush makes him act inappropriately. Should I film him and send it to his supervisor and wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Has anyone ever cringed at their Manager, I work in retail and My Married should I add Store Manager has such an obvious crush on a customer. A young women around late 20s comes in every other day and my Manager, makes no secret he is checking her ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

Is there any way to increase the size of my breasts without surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl with a 34 B-cup breast I was wondering is there anyway for me to increase the size of them without surgery? I had my first cycle when I was 14 and my mom I think is a b cup I'm not sure....

Do I pull out of the pageant? I'm just not feeling it anymore and can't fake it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - It took me 3 years to finally make up my mind to contest for a beauty pageant and my talent would be singing. I am a soprano singer and I always sing with my heart so the audience can feel what I am feeling inside. But the problem is I have since ...

Is it normal not to want to be around anything "lovey dovey" after being hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - Is it normal to dislike any love scenes, or want to hear about people's sex lives once you've been hurt in love? I had a bad split with my ex a few months back. He didn't love me and went off with a woman I know. Although I do not want him back...

When do we feel like we're completely grown up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - I am getting married soon. I have been excited up to this point, as I am with a really, really great guy. Now that it's becoming reality, I am having some strange feeling. I don't want to sound like a schmuck with low self esteem but I question ...

Should I get breast implants because my boyfriend wants me to?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to get breast implants, and I don't know how I feel about it. I am naturally very flat chested, an A cup. I've never really liked having small breasts but as I've gotten older I've learned to accept it. My boyfriend wa...

Life is like a box of chocolates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - Today I’m feeling pretty shit, so I can either sit there and sulk or either do something about it. So I chose to do something about it. If I can’t make myself happy, I can try and at least put a smile on those that read this post. :D “Life is...

Does anyone know what my boyfriend's puzzling statement means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - Hi, i had a conversation with my boyfriend about love and he said i appreciate your interest in me but in this matters i become like st thomas the only difference is that i also want to see myself. Any clue what he means....

What to do when counselling has been a COMPLETE waste of time and money?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - What to do when counselling has been a COMPLETE waste of time and money? First I lost my job and then found out I was pregnant. Several things went wrong. In laws COMPLETELY interfered. Pushed us into keeping her, WITHOUT caring about my own ...

What does this symbol mean in text talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - I am in my 40's and not up to date with emoticons on text and email. Whilst I know this may mean a wink ;-) can someone tell me what ;-)))) means please....

My father left everything to my stepmother! How do I cope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - My father passed away in early August. I am devastated because we were very close. I am also very upset about how his will turned out for my sister and I. My father was quite wealthy and literally everything went to his wife, a woman he was onl...

Is my boyfriend's boss flirting with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has told me about his female boss who he insists is just being friendly. She often calls him handsome when saying good morning to him and has even commented on his body. I think this is inappropriate as she is his boss. I'm not sure if ...

Know of any books on relationship building?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Can you give me the names of any books that will talk about how a couple should build a relationship from their first introduction to their marriage? Sorry, but I do not want your advice. I want the name of a book to rea...

I am having hateful feelings towards a 'friend' and want to let it go, but we work together and it's more complicated, but not just because of that.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Dear all, This is not a relationship question, but a 'freindship' question. Please help. I have been working with a woman ( I too am female) for seven years now. We developed a rather co- dependant freindship. Basically, I was going through a very ...

Do you think I am right to look for another job, or am I just panicking because other areas of my life are advancing quickly and I feel like my job doesn't match up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - So this is a little different to my normal questions. I am 28 and currently work as an assistant teacher, I have been working as this for 2 years. I have pushed to better myself all my life but have come across barriers due to finances, limitat...

This pregnancy couldn't have happened at a worse time! I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Hi im looking for some advice, I don't want any hateful comments as this is hard enough. I have two children 5 and 3, im no longer with their dad and have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. He is perfect, he adores my children and we ...

A question about spenders, why does he expect me to fund him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Why cant my boyfriend understand that every time he spends his money that he cant account for and comes back picking for a fight when i have little cash of my own to spare, that this creates a problem for me. I am not well off and probably have less ...

My wife claims to be bisexual but I'm not sure. Does my wife owe me an explanation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - Hi and thanks in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am a married man in my 30s. My wife is supposedly bi-sexual(although I have never seen evidence). When we first met we actively sought out single women to join us in the bedroom, ...

Is There Any Point Dating If I'm Only Staying Somewhere Temporarily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - I have a temporary job which will last for 6 months to a year (depending on my progress) in a certain city. It's an OK city, but I am moving somewhere else (on the other side of the country) after I finish and can afford to live somewhere a bit ...

Should I chose my dreams over a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - I am in a big dilemma now. i have huge aspiration since i saw my cousins getting married and movin to US . i also want to pursue my career in US and want to settle there so i am giving my GRE in nov.Even my sister who is married is planning to move ...

Why do my boyfriend's parents care so much about my educational background?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

13 August 2015 (F) - I am a 22 year old woman in a relationship with a 24 year old man. We love each other but are complete opposites when it comes to educational background. I did not go to college, while he has a masters degree. His parents both have doctoral de...

Why do most guys like big boobs so much?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis - ...

Is there a chance that in fulfilling these fantasies I could also get a broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - Ok.. How can I sum this up... My fiancé and I are head over heels in love with each other, we have been together for 4 years. We have made it through some pretty hard times, the first year of our relationship, which in the end made us so much ...

I'm left alone and really unhappy at work. Should I talk to my apprenticeship assessor about my work situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3394 days ago

11 August 2015 (F) - I started my apprenticeship in May 2015, my role is a Business Administration Apprentice at a company that have only just started trading January this year. I thought this would job would be a good opportunity for myself as it is a small business ...

How do you get popular?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - How do you get popular in life? I see people on facebook get so many likes meaning that peple like them. I know it's shallow to think or shallow way of thinking but why are some people more popular or well liked then others? Just wondering. What'...

I'm not funny, are girls put off by guys like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

10 August 2015 (M) - Girls say all the time that they want guys who are funny, well the truth is, that not everybody can make everybody laugh and be the life of the party. Some guys like me are not funny or sarcastic and generally don't have a sense of humor. I'll n...

I'm afraid I'll be alone always. Is there any hope for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

10 August 2015 (M) - sorry to ask this but, im a 25 old old male and its been a while since i've had a relationship with anyone. i always worry that one day i'll never end up in a relationship ever again, and i'll wind dying alone and simply dont want that to happen to ...

How do people balance their work/social/school lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3373 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - How do some people balance a social and or dating life with their work /school life? I want to start dating again but my schedule is very unpredicatable (retail what can you do?). How does one balance their work/social/school/career or eve...

Do other women not wear panties under their dresses?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

9 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend gave me a gift card to luluelemon and said to buy something we would both enjoy. I ended up with a tennis style dress that fits perfect on me, but it is supershort. He told me it looks amazing on me but I'm a little selfconscious with ...

Why do married men fancy me? And why do I respond?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

9 August 2015 (F) - I am a 40 year old woman.. Separated from an alcoholic husband, no children but I work and manage on my own. I also live on my own. Of late I have a lot of interest from married men. This is the second one in 3 years and I like them as friends ...

Is being married and having a family all its cracked up to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

9 August 2015 (F) - What is it like having your own family (a spouse, a house, with children and pets, etc). I'm just wondering because I had never really found Mr. Right (I thought I did in the past but you know how it is). Can anyone with what I described clue me in? ...

65 year old submissive cross dresser. How can I encourage my wife to be more tolerant and supportive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - I'm a submissive,married crossdresser, and although my wife knows of my dressing, she does not participate or encourage me in any manner. I wish she could be somewhat supportive, and I could also share my other fetishes and fantasies with her. In ...

How can the family help our sister who keeps on forgiving her abusive partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - My sister has a live-in boyfriend who is about 20 years younger than her. He is about 36. In the past, he has beaten her a few times that we know about. He also had attacked my sister in front of family. My sister has done about 3 temporary re...

How can we resolve our living arrangements amicably?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3397 days ago

8 August 2015 (F) - My husband and I met in England but we moved to Canada 6 years ago. I liked living in Canada at first but over the years I got more and more homesick for the UK and after a while I started disliking my job too. I have repeatedly over the years asked ...

Will meeting my ex after 8 years affect my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - When I was fifteen, I met an incredible guy. He helped me through a lot and understood me totally. When my family and we struggling he even helped us without being asked-and asked nothing in return. We were long distance for most of the relationship ...

My boyfriend values his dog over his own daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - Hi sorry if this is long I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now we have a 9 month old daughter the problem is he spends hardly any time with her he finishes work around 4 comes to mine at 6, spends an hour at mine then he goes back to his flat ...

What makes a man fall in love with a woman and want only her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

6 August 2015 (F) - What makes a man fall in love with a woman and want only her?...