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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I don't want a heart anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - i fell in love almost four years ago, it was the first, i had never been in a long term relationship before and it hit me like rain on a window pain. i needed teaching every way to act, i found myself in situations that i know know were disrespec...

I ended a brief affair w/ my coworker, but I would like to hear others' opinions about it - any thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I can't believe I'm writing this, my head must be mashed! Well, where do I start? I've been married for 4 years and have a beautiful daughter coming up to three years old. I care for my wife deeply but cannot honestly say I'm in love with her any ...

I have confidence issues and my bf thinks I'm just being moody - it's have a negative effect on us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, we get on reasonably well and although I don spend most weekends together and I believe we have a good relationship. However I have a few confidence issues which my boyfriend interprets as moods ...

I'm 13, he's 16 - I want a normal relationship w/ him but it's impossible b/c of our parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want...

It was my decision to break up, but I can't get over it! Am I going to regret this the rest of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - Hi, Really need help! Broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago. And it was my decision so I know I should get over it but I can’t. He understands me, loves me and believes in everything that I do. Everyone wants a boyfrien...

I told my friends a secret, and they told everyone and now spread lies about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - my friends never believe me, well here's the thing, i slept with someone i shouldn't have and i completely regretted it so i went to confide in my friends! When i told them at first they promised not to tell anyone and i felt much better after i had ...

I don't understand bra sizes - what's the number for? what's the letter for?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I bought some lingerie for my girlfriend (and a vibrator but I'l0 give her them two items when I leave her parents house). But the one thing I don't understand about Breast size is what something like 34C means. What does the 34 mean and what does ...

I like him and he said I'm special, but he got with my friend! I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I feel really upset at the moment, because this boy i really liked, got with my friend on saturday on her 15. me and him like muck around, he said he loved me. we've been quite far and i have given him head. but i want more with him, i want him ...

I like this boy, but there are reasons why I think it wouldn't work - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I like this boy and people think he likes me and we would make the perfect couple. Problem is 1) my mate likes him 2) when i asked him out for my mate he said he didn't want a gf 3) i told my mates i didn't like him 4) i want him to know i d...

New to dearcupid..is it okay to post a question that is quite long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - hi. i'm new to using dearcupid. most or all posted questions and answers are viewed by everyone, right? is it ok if posting a question is that is quite long? probably even take nearly whole page to write or discuss problem. what do you suggest?...

I'm in an abusive relationship, but I want out. I'm afraid nobody would want me b/c I have three kids!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - help. ive been with a bloke for nearly 5 years and we have 3 very young children together (17 months and twin 7 months). our relationship started out great but over the past 12 months ive slowly grown out of love with him for many reasons. he has ...

How can I get him to talk about sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about sex at all and he gets very uncomfortable when I ask him any questions. I know he watches porn but he doesn't want to talk about this either. how can i get him to open up?...

I hardly see my live-in gf anymore - when I asked her to spend more time at home, she said no!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I have asked my live in gf to spend more time at home so we can spend time together but she seems unwilling. She said she is going to hang out with her friends once a week and if it makes me mad than shes sorry. she has two jobs so between them ...

School and work is coming between me and my son and I don't know what to do - I'm so upset! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - hya i am just having a few problems my head feels all over the place at the moment i am doing a full time course at college and then hopefully going to uni next year. i also have a part time job with i do on my days off college, but i am feeling a ...

After being married 3 months, I drunkenly kissed another man in front of my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I have made a major mistake!! I have only been married for 3 months and already have sort of cheated infront of my new husband! Its was works night out and I got really drunk I cant even remember the night I had difficulty getting a cab home when ...

My coworker is spreading lies about me around the office and making my life hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - there is this horrible person at work and she is making my life hell. When i first started to work with this company almost 2yrs ago she clung to me and made out as if she was my best mate, it all started to get a bit scary when she started to copy ...

Do men only flirt w/ a woman if he fancies her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I was having a chat with my partner last night (which turned into a bit of a heated debate) about men flirting and generally whether they only flirt with women they fancy. He reckons that men will only flirt and also speak innuendo with a woman if ...

My gf slept w/ her ex while drunk. We sorted it out, but I still feel upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - Ive been going out with my gf for 3 months, we are both 20. Last week she went to a club and got incredibly drunk, met her ex bf, went home to his house, slept with him, and came home the next day. When she rang me to tell me what had happene...

Condoms are ruining our sex life! What can be done about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend are both 20. Shes my first sexual partner and 3 months into our relationship im still getting nervous problems. I always go soft when the condom is brought out. I dont know why! Its really annoying me and even upsetting m...

She says she loves me, but she refuses to stop seeing other guys! Should I let her go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (?) - Please I need everyone's help on this situation. My problem now is that, I have a girl friend which I truely love, and she told me she really love me and the same time have another guy which she loved as well just like the way she love me, that she ...

I feel ashamed of my body since he's been looking at porn - I feel this could break us apart

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - Pornography - How do I cope, I can't compete Found out my fella has been using pornography when he stays in hotels.....this comes after an event 2-3 years ago when I found out he had been looking at porn on my computer.....nearly tore us appart t...

For the past 2 years it's like we've been going out, but with no intimacy. She said she doesn't want a bf - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I'm so confused about my best mate. Help. When I came to Uni I met a girl and we got on great. She split up with her boyfriend that christmas and for the next 2 years we appeared to be going out but not actually having any intimate moments...

Shots, pills, patches...what's the best birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - birth control Hi, I was wondering if some of the women out there could help me out? I have thought it out carefully and decided I want to go on birth control. However, how do I get it? What's the most convenient, in your opinion? I hear there are...

He tells his numerous girl friends that they are beautiful - I feel threatened and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - can girls and boys be only friends? hi, my boyfriend has tons of very close girl friends. as his girlfriend, i feel slightly threatened by their close relationships, especially when i hear him calling them pretty, beautiful, etc. my take ...

This new girl is everything my girlfriend is not - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl I truly care about, and we have been together for 2 years, but now this new and interesting girl has come into my life she is totally different than my girlfriend and it intrigues me. I feel bad for feeling ...

What's a good present to give someone who has everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - xmas present? i've been with my boyfriend for about a year, actually a little over, and i am trying to find something amazing to give him. but he has everything he needs, hes up to date on the latest gizmos and gadgets, so id end up giving him so...

Why was he afraid to hug me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - ok my ex and i break up a few wks ago. We remain friends for now. Well he got into a fight with his ex bestfriend/roommate. Of course me being the kind of the caring wonderful person that i am went to comfort my ex. Well trying to comfort hi...