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writes: I'm so confused about my best mate. Help.When I came to Uni I met a girl and we got on great. She split up with her boyfriend that christmas and for the next 2 years we appeared to be going out but not actually having any intimate moments. Our best friends and families kept saying we would make a good couple and appear to be going out. Nothings happened really apart from a few drunken kisses. Recently my heads been in a mess and I'm living with her. I told her my feelings of love towards her the other night and the response was not good. I know she doesn't want love in her life and doesn't want a boyfriend right now but the way she has acted before and things she has said has made me believe for years that she does have feelings for me. Do I forget her and move on or keep hope and be determined to get the girl of my dreams?
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reader, katybear  +, writes (13 December 2006):
Go out and date other girls live up your time at uni while you still have it. You've been in this bubble for two years and although you like/love this girl its not going anyware. you will know if she really cares when you move on as its only when something becomes a little less avaliable you notice what you had. Keep on good terms with her but i think moving on will result in you being happy either with her or someone else. so do what you gotta keep your guard up and have fun youngen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): I think she likes you lots, but doesn't fancy you. Probably you make her feel very comfortable and you're a good laugh, but if she doesn't fancy you, there's nothing you can do about it. I say, move on, date other girls, and if you genuinely care for this girl then keep her as a mate.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 Hiys,
Compliments of the season to you.
Now you have been with her for two years now and that is quite a long time for her to have the desired effect and know that is you she wants. I think u should take time off the relationship and date other girls. I know she means alot to you but if she doesnt have or even express her feelings for you then it wont be fair for you to keep waiting.
If she does care and wants more then i'm sure your wanting to move on will stir positive response from her. But this shouldnt be your reason for doing that. It is about time u find someone who would reciprocate your feelings? Dont u think?
Take care dear.
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