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writes: my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about sex at all and he gets very uncomfortable when I ask him any questions. I know he watches porn but he doesn't want to talk about this either. how can i get him to open up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have been together for 2 years and are living together. I don't think it's the questions I am asking just the general problem that sex is a subject he is not comfortable talking about at all.
I suppose it would help me understand him more and to make sure I am doing all the right things.
I have said that I am not trying to be intrusive my motives are to improve our sex life and to get closer by being honest and open.
The porn thing is also a mystery he says its not related to his feelings towards me or sex with me but when I tried to get him to explain he avoids the conversation.
I don't know what else to do some male persopective would really help.
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reader, Thekris1234 will help u  +, writes (13 December 2006):
Invite this boy round and get him into a quiet room. Then get him in the right mood and I am sure he will open up. I have had experience with this so I should know. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006):
"he gets very uncomfortable when I ask him any questions"
what questions are you asking and why? Is the purpose of these conversations clear? How long have you been together and at what stage is your relationship?
Maybe he just doesnt think its any of your business at this point....
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