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writes: ok my ex and i break up a few wks ago. We remain friends for now.Well he got into a fight with his ex bestfriend/roommate.Of course me being the kind of the caring wonderful person that i am went to comfort my ex.Well trying to comfort him i go to hug him and he hugs me lightly. I told him that it was ok to really hug me cuz i know that he needed it, and he said that hes been afaird to hug me and i asked him why and he said i dont know. So i told him you know im here for you i know we are just friends and i told you i be here for you no matter what. So he actually give me a really hug more tighter this time.Well my innocent trying to comfort him ended up going from trying to be a friend to feeling like we were dating again cuz it ended up being all flirty and touchy. I guess i must confess that i played a big part in this cuz i started the touching cuz i would touch his face to show that i was serious about what i was talking about i mean maybe my touchyness was alittle to personal to be "just a friend" but he didnt pull away or put me in place. Im not saying i was trying to seduce him but i mean i was trying to help but it went to flirtyness. I mean he returned my actions it wasnt like me doing all of the work. I guess what my question is wouldnt a ex who broke up with you put you in place in some way or step back especially since he told you start out he didnt what a gf in this time of his life but he acts like a bf type person again? And why is it that he was afaird to hug me? I know its not making any sense but i cant seem to make it make sense though words.
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reader, chibijess +, writes (12 December 2006):
 omgosh i know this
im having this right now with my ex!! *tackle glomps*
its hard and confusing cause you keep telling yourself your just friends? but then the deep nagging voice tells you that you want more, need more.
You cant help yourself and because he's not stopping it you dont want to stop it, cause you may never have the oppotunity to be this close again.
i dont know what to say to help you, im still trying to figure out myself. but if you want to chat more, im hear and i have a ear to listen with ^_^
just thought it'd help to let you know your not alone in this sitch!!
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 well, he was afraid to hug you because he could have felt a little weird being close to you(ex). well, he does enjoy the feeling again, especially after a fight with his recent gf.. thats probably why he hug you tighter.
well, all i can say is, if you really want to be with him again, dont rush for it. see what happens for it, if not you'll be "stealing" him away from his recent gf. he may have been your bf ONCE. but you must know that it was over a long time ago and now he's in another relationship, you have to take that in mind k?
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