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writes: Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want a normal relaitionship but its impossible because of our parents. What can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sheffield_pink +, writes (14 December 2006):
It's not the age difference that's the problem it's just that you're only 13. I know this might sound harsh, but one day when you're married with kids (to a different person) you'll think back on this and laugh. Don't worry and start being a kid and having fun!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): first, you should tell the truth to your mom before sometihng happens which might make her mad. if she doesnt like what youre doing, tell her your feelings and why hes so important to you. then she might undertsand how you are feeling. see, im also 13 and gone through the same. my mom and dad got upset that i was dating an older guy. they just wanted me to be safe though, because they know how the guy's mind works! but all you have to do is just tell her the truth.
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reader, Anjel735 +, writes (13 December 2006):
Talk to your mom, you may be surprised with her reaction. Assuming the worst will keep you and your bf apart or cause you agony for no reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006):
If your mom wont drive you to the play date you are kind of SOL.
Probably for the best- read the posts from some other 13yo questioners.
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (12 December 2006):
 well to tell you the truth, there is really nothing you can do. since you are a minor your parents are responsible for you unless you are emancipated. (legally seperated from the care of your parents) now even if you have tried talking to them (if not, then you should try)and they still deny your request, then there really isn't anything you can do. if you both love each other so much then you will both wait for each other until you are to be together. but you can't force something like this, it is your parents job to protect you and care for your best interest. just try talking to them, maybe they will understand.
good luck.
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