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I like this boy, but there are reasons why I think it wouldn't work - what do I do?

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Question - (12 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this boy and people think he likes me and we would make the perfect couple. Problem is

1) my mate likes him

2) when i asked him out for my mate he said he didn't want a gf

3) i told my mates i didn't like him

4) i want him to know i do

5) he seems to like my other friend although we have great nights when we just talk and he says nice things

what do i do?

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A male reader, cam Australia +, writes (13 December 2006):

cam agony auntwhile i wuld hav sed tell him how u feel i understand how it can feel when sum1 u lyk hooks up wif a freind i still think u should tell him how you feel but only if he's worth damaging u and ur m8s freindship. while ur m8 would b hurt, assumin shes a good m8 she will get over.

i hope that helps ya

good luck

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A female reader, LilVikki +, writes (12 December 2006):

LilVikki agony aunthi, my name's LilVikki and i hope you can talk to me about all of your problems because im always here.

Yea your mate likes him, has she told him? there's nothing wrong with you telling somebody how you feel. You might as well tell this guy that you like him because you never know he might feel the same but probably doesnt want to say anything incase you dont feel the same. if you tell him and he says he doesnt like you in that way atleast you have benefitted from this situation.

- you've told him how you feel

- you know how he feels towards you

To me this guy seems to be playing a game, i think he likes you but he's making you believe he doesnt like you by saying he doesnt want a girlfriend.

It's a good thing that you have good laughs with him, it shows your friendship is good and is most likely to get stronger.

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