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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Sometimes I feel its wrong for loving this man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I've had relationship after relationship and most of them were at least 19 years older or so... i've also been with some my age. I currently am 20 and my intimate other is 28 years older. I know the whole being depeived of a father figure is the ...

He is 40 and I am 25. Is that too old if you both like each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - im 25 and the guy i like is 40. is that too old if you both like each other? and do older men think 25 is to young? im pretty mature i mean ifinished grad school, and still live with my parents but am looking to eventually move out.. i was wondering ...

Will our relationship be illegal when I graduate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Ok I am going to graduate this year from highschool and my boyfriend is a year younger than me will it be illegal for me and him to date when he is still in highschool and I'm not? Also I don't want to break up with him I want him and I to be ...

I'm suffering from insecurity and need help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me really ? Im 17 years old ( nearly 18 ) and just over 5 months ago i met this bloke from my workplace. I knew straight away he was the one and anyway we hit it off quickly and have been together 5 month...

I'm 13, he's 18. Would it be ok to date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - i always feel a lot older than i am. me and this guy like each other and flirt a lot, and it might lead to a relationship but we're just seeing how things go as hes 18, im 13 and we don't want to rush into anything. i know it would be illegal to ...

How do I get this older guy, who's known me since I was little, to notice me and see me as a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - i really need help with this, pleaseeee. i've known this guy almost all my life, years have gone by and we have both definitely grown a lot. He is so attractive and hot, and i am just now starting to notice him. He is a couple of years older then...

He's 32 years older, and past the bedroom we don't have much in common. Do I break it off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - hi, i am 18 and have fallen head over heels in love with a man that is 32 years older then me. I am in love but I also know the relationship is doomed as past the bedroom we don't have that much in common. We have been having sex for about a year ...

18 year old with crush on 14 year old?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

23 September 2011 (M) - hi guys i am 18 and i have a developing crush on a 14 year old girl and i just wanted to get peoples views on this is it weird to you or doesn't it matter to you? ...

Ten year age difference ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I'll try and get straight to the point but it's a long story, lol. I have been dating a guy that's ten years older than me for about a month and a half on and off.. simply because he has issues with my age, which don't get me wrong.. I do ...

I am attracted to my math tutor, but don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I'm 20 years old... Almost 3 years ago I was in high school. I was in last grade (in Greece we're giving exams to enter a university) and I needed a private tutor in maths... So I started having lessons with a guy 45-50 years old (his appearance is ...

He's worried he's going to lose me to 'working' people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - i have recently started a dating 1 year younger than me. it all started casual and now has turned really serious. i finished school and i m about to move to a new town to start working. he is now so insecure with the move, he feels like he will lose ...

I'm 24 and he's 20...can this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I recently met a guy at the bar that I started dating. The thing is he's 20 and I'm 24... He says it doesn't bother him at all, is this normal? We get along great but it makes me wonder what his motives are... Any insight from you guys out there? ...

How many men still find their wife attractive as she ages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I hear a lot about men desiring younger women, and of wives being heart broken over their husbands leaving them for a younger woman. So i'm curious, how many men still find their wife attractive as she ages? and after kids? do you still desire her...

I'm 34 and he's 23. How can I help him gain sexual confidence despite his erectile dysfunction issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body. I have 2 pre-teens. He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin. I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likel...

He's blocked for a reason. Should I confront him, for seeking info about me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - I fell out with my best friend, who was a guy, around five or six weeks ago, blocked him from contacting me, so that he wouldn't be able to contact me and would leave me alone from then on. I do not want anything to do with him anymore. I have just ...

How do you chose between love and youthfulness???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half and I love him greatly, he treats me great and will do anything for me. The problem is, recently we have been going through are up’s and down’s. The thing is he is 10 years older than ...

How could we make this a successful relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - I am a boy of 25 yr. I met with a lady of 40 yr on a social network about 9 months ago. We soon became good friends and we spent all the time sharing our thoughts, experiences and almost whole personal life although we hv abt 8 hr time lap. She is ...

I never normally go for younger guys...but he seems really mature!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Im in a bit of a dilemma and I need your help.I am currently 18 and going to be 19 in two weeks. Anyway there's this guy who I like who's 16,that's just started college. Now my problem is I NEVER go for guys younger than my age,but ...

I'm 16. My crush on my sister's older friend comes and goes. What should I do about this crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - I've had a little bit of a crush on my sister's older friend for about a half year. But here recently my sister's friend and I have been hanging out a lot lately. We've been doing things such as going to the movies, going out to eat, and other fun ...

I have fallen in love with a co-worker. He is straight and ten years younger than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

13 September 2011 (M) - i have fallen in love with a straight guy and he is my co- worker. he 10 yrs younger than me. our friendship started in work and then we meet always in the work and one day i feel attached to him. we talk and laugh but nowadays he never answerd ...

I don't know how to deal with my feelings after sleeping with my old coach.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 September 2011 (?) - I'm 26 and I slept with my sports coach back in April. I've known him from when I was about 13/14 because I used to go to the sports camps and socials and when I was about 14/15 I started to develop a bit of a crush. I didn't know him well, he was ...

His age information isn't matching up with the background check!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - I really really need help and advice because I'm so confused at this point. I met a guy online and at the time, his profile said he was 30 and now a year later, he's 31. I believed him. But today I was talking to a friend about stalkerish thing...

My Dad is threatening me with the police

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - I got in a car wreck about 2 weeks ago...my dad is very mad at me. He has threatened to call the cops on me and lie and say that i stole his vehicle when i didn't. Well that is not what bothers me. He has also threatened to call the cops and get me ...

My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...

In love with my ex husband's older brother - I think love conquers all, but he says he cant do it anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am almost 31 years old and am in love with my ex husbands brother. We were both going through divorce at the same time. Comforted each other. And we fell in love. He is 20 years older than me. I do NOT care about age. My ex husband ...

I love 3 older married men and I'm only 18.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I am an 18 year old girl, and I am single. I met one of my mums friends husband last year and I instantly felt a connection with him. He had just been made redundant so he got a job at where me and my dad worked. He is 31 and probably not the ...

My boyfriend is marrying another girl, which is now making me stressed!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is married with some other girl. She doesn't keep him happy in any way. She is arrogant and doesn't respect him. He himself tells me all this. He is 15 years elder than me. We had three years intense relationship. I suggested him to get ...

Why is dating a middle aged man so hard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Why is dating a middle aged man so hard? He's 43 and I'm 30. He doesn't call much but when he does, its a 2 hour chat. He calls only once or twice a week. When we go out, its an all day outing. I've told him we can hang out for only a couple of ...