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I'm 16. My crush on my sister's older friend comes and goes. What should I do about this crush?

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Question - (15 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've had a little bit of a crush on my sister's older friend for about a half year.

But here recently my sister's friend and I have been hanging out a lot lately. We've been doing things such as going to the movies, going out to eat, and other fun things like that.

A little while back I started reading her body language. She shows all of the tell tale signs that she likes me a lot. Like of we are laying down on the couch together I find me and her looking into each others eyes and it's just magical. She is a little bit older than me though, but I didn't think that it really mattered.

So here recently I've been doing a lot of thinking on this subject, but when I start thinking about it I sometimes change my mind.

It's like one day I want to be with date her, and the next day I don't.

This sometimes makes it very awkward to be around her when I do this. I isn't fair to put her through something like this either. So what I would like to know is why my mind is changing. I would really like to come to a solution so that way I can make the right decision in the future. Thank you for any help.

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A male reader, Thelaird1 United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2011):

Thelaird1 agony auntMaybe your mind changes because of your sister.

How do you think your sister would react if you did start dating her friend?

I think only you can answer this question yourself, but be completely sure of what you want before taking it further.

You could mention to your sister that you like her. Maybe she has told your sister that she likes you too.

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