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writes:I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body.I have 2 pre-teens.He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin.I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likely in Love. We both know that I am not expecting anything out of this relationship. Our feelings are so strong... so I thought.... Well, We make out, and tried to have sex.He erect while making out. But first time we attempted, he went soft right after penetration. ( I mean not even 5 seconds!) Second time we attempt, he went soft right before penetration.I questioned him if he was not attracted to me.I also questioned if he was not in love with me. He told me he is in love with me.I actually know he is into me, because little text he sends me, the conversation we have.He told me he only had 1 girlfriend. I am guessing he poroably only had 2 or 3 sexual partners. He also told me growing up when he was teenager, he did not have any friends, he was not accepted by many social groups, he just felt rejected from many people. He also told me he has not been intimate with any girls for last 2 years. I am so in love with him, and I want to be closer to him.I want to have great sex with him. Please help.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (19 September 2011):
 I think his issue may be a bit more psychological than physical. But even then, you wont know until you find out from him. I do think that he's attracted to you, he likes you, and he has the ability to get erect (as you could already tell when you two were making out), but you can chalk it up to nervousness, stress, in this situation. I would advise that you both see a sex therapist, add a bit more foreplay into your sex lives, and you may even want to mention a few things here that may help him with his erection problem: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guys-what-to-do-if-youre-suffering-from.html This is a sensitive topic for most men, so just bring it up casually.
Hope this helps! :^)
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