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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I'm in love with the guy I am seeing for casual sex, I cannot get over him and the thing is I'm getting mixed feelings about it, like he doesn't ask how's it going normally , he only talks when he wants sex but during sex he wants to cuddle, what to do? It's really hurting me right now so bad that he did not even accept my invitation for coffee and said lets hang at the house better, I feel he's taking me for granted and I'm trying my best to get close to him but he keeps on shutting me down . This has drained me a lot, made me feel so insecure and that I'm not worthy of him because I'm not as pretty or as good as other girls he knows. I just want him, I love him
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (6 January 2017):
No he is not taking you for granted. You got in to the arrangement off casual sex, therefore why expect more from him? He is not interested in you romantically, he just wants some fun, so the best thing that you can do is tell him no more casual sex because you want more and I bet you won't see him again unless off course he tries to talk you in to still having sex with him. Maybe next time you should make a guy wait before having sex with him.
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reader, N91 +, writes (5 January 2017):
You need to move on, if you carry on speaking to this guy you'll end up heartbroken. You will NEVER get together with this guy or else you already would be.
Block him from your life and move on.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 January 2017):
You're trying to turn a fwb into more, and he's indicated he has not interest in that. You're just going to hurt yourself if you continue to sleep with him. Move on.
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