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writes:Hey everyone! I just need some opinions on a situation that has been developing between me and this guy at university, sorry if this is quite long!So back in around October I was at the pub with my friends and saw this guy, who looked like maybe a 2nd or 3rd year (I'm a fresher, in first year). I was too shy to go and talk to him even though he kept smiling at me and looking at me, I guess showing an interest. Anyway, nothing actually happened.Then a few times after that I saw him around campus and he smiled at me every time, making an effort to get my attention e.g. waving if I didn't originally see him, which I thought was really cute.Again, nothing actually happened because he never talked to me etc.So today, after about 2 months, I saw him again! I was coming out of a building at the same time as him and we walked together (talking for the first time) to the gate which is near the house I'm renting.So he asked me my name and my course etc. and he was really nice - but I'm an idiot because I didn't ask him anything about himself! I didn't even ask his name because I was so nervous and stupid!And just as we got to the gate we were saying goodbye and he was about to ask for my number, like he literally went "can I have your-" but then his friends on the football pitch called over to him (he was going to training) so he had to say goodbye and go see them!So now I'm in a really annoying situation where I like this guy but I don't even know who he is and there is no way for me to try and contact him!Plus, why didn't he ask for my number properly? Like did he chicken out because he doesn't really like me?And does he just want to be friends or is he interested in more than that?Help!!!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 January 2016):
 Happy Man-hunt, honey :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers Honeypie and aunt honesty! He was training just in his own clothes (they were very cute and I would recognise THOSE specifically again ha ha) so I didn't see any specific team colours.
I think maybe next Monday I'll keep a good look-out for him at the same place, hopefully he'll be at the same building again and this time I will find out his name and number!
I just really hope I don't have to wait too long to find him again, or for him to find me, two months is a long time and I really like him :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 January 2016):
 Maybe his training is a scheduled time, therefore if he was going to training at the time you where both talking then maybe you could show up the same day and time this week and see if he is out training.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 January 2016):
My guess is HE will find you. Sooner rather than later. It sucks with all those teams :( do they play in different colors? (team shirts?). Or try to go the the field where you saw him run off to today.
If he remembered you after 2 months, he isn't going to forget.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer Honeypie! The issue is that at our university there's like a million football teams (one for every course) and then there's the main football competitive team. I tried looking for him on the Facebook page of that one but he wasn't on it (I know that may sound stalkerish but I really like him!) and I don't know what course he does so I have no idea what course-specific team he would be on :(
I guess I might just have to wait until I bump into him around campus again but today was the first time in 2 months, what if I have to wait that long again and by then he isn't interested?
And what if because I didn't ask for his name or anything etc. he thinks I'm not interested? So doesn't try to find me or anything :(
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 January 2016):
Oh I forgot... Do the football team have a website/Facebook page maybe? Or a roster?
Might be a good way to figure out his name.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 January 2016):
Who knows what he is really interested in, but if he is on Campus you will see him again. And next time... ASK him his name!
If he is REALLY keen on getting to know you, he will find you... or you will find him.
You know he plays football, correct? So check and see when they train and show up. If he can he will find a way to talk to you AFTER the training.
Don't give up:) It sounds like a good beginning.
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