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writes:My male cousin died a few years ago. Ever since I have gotten his 4 children together for visits. They are half siblings and don't see each other unless I get them. Recently one child was placed in the custody of my female cousin (his sister). She has 2 kids of her own. How do I navigate asking to have the one child over without inviting her kids? I can't fit all 6 children in my car and the guardians aren't willing to drop them off. It's important for the half siblings to be able to spend time together. I usually get them once every month or 2 and it's the only time they get to spend together.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 February 2016):
 "Hi there! I hope things are going well for you! You may not know but I have been getting Jack's children together for monthly (or every other month) visits in the years since he died.
"I'm sure Bob is so happy to be with you and his cousins. The next Jack's children gathering is planned for XYZ. I'd like to come collect them at ABC time and I'll drop Bob off at GHI.
"[insert your news here]
"I think Jack's children so enjoy these important get-togethers, this is the only time they get to spend together.
"[other family chit chat]
"Here's my contact info, let me know if that all works for you!
"Looking forward to seeing you on ABC and we can catch up in person soon.
"In loving memory of Jack, we keep his children connected, it's a legacy for their future. Thank you so much for all you do!"
"Love,
Cousin Meghan.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 February 2016):
 Just call and ask if you can pick up "Bob" on Saturday so he and go see his siblings. Don't mention her kids. If she does bring it up suggest you can make an outing with HER kids and Bob another time.
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