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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he telling the truth? Why is there a porn site on his phone history?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I wonder if you can help me with something. My boyfriend who I don't live with yet has a porn site showing on his phone history. I was looking up something yesterday on his phone not thinking for one moment that there would be anything like that on there he had handed me th... (232 words)

I'm in a new relationship and want to know if I should tell him about sleeping with my ex when we were just starting to date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in a new relationship which is going so well and I am extremely happy, when I first dated this man I was still in contact with my ex on a civil level or as friends as most would say, I went on a few dates with this new man and didn't think I wanted a relationship ... (261 words)

How on earth do I bring this crush under control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am obsessed with my uni lecturer! Infatuated, and cannot stop thinking about him! This is very embarrassing for me to admit because I am almost 30 and have been in a relationship for 9 years. I am sure my lecturer must realise how I feel, as he is pleasant and relaxed w... (254 words)

My mom is toxic! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a difficult problem and any help would be greatly appreciated. My mum has always been an attention seeking, malevolent narcissist. She likes to play the victim and does so at the expense of everyone around her. She has ruined her own and my relationships with family and ... (456 words)

I am afraid I will never be my own man if I stay at this job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - So here I'm finished with college , single , and thinking of leaving my job. It all started after she left me (and yes i get how stupid this is) she was with me for so long I "changed" because of her and now she's gone; my parents and closest friends insisting that it was ... (227 words)

He only texts me at night. What does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - A few months ago I met this boy in a different state and we hungout and talked for a while and he told our mutual friend that I was really hot and he wished I was older. He's in college and I'm a sophomore in highschool now. (I was a freshmen then) I recently ran into him and ... (114 words)

Is there any advice for peace of mind in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 15. Met a girl from another country (quite close) on a school trip. Love her. Still talk but difficult because can't meet. We're obviously both at school. Advice for peace of mind?... (33 words)

Do I continue on and hope he will grow up? Or is it time to end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel stupid even writing this. I have been with my partner for over 5 and half years. I have a child from a previous relationship. My child is 10. I do love my partner but he is so immature. He is 32, i am 31. I feel like i behave more like his mother than his partner. I c... (203 words)

How do you cope with the social pressure to get a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and haven't been in a relationship. Although, I'm average looking enough that I probably could be if I wanted to. But more and more people around will tell me to get into a relationship: my parents, my siblings, and my friends. I don't remember feeling any similar ... (108 words)

Is it possible to loose your virginity to someone without being emotionally attached?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im 18 a virgin ,by choice, but i met this guy im thinking of loosing it to, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship but stills wants to have sex. on one hand im thinking to do it because i know the sex would be AMAZING so i would have a really good first time, but then ... (134 words)

I want to be a family but I am scarred from what my boyfriend did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) age 30-35 - A few weeks after I had given birth to my baby I found a load of sexting texts on my boyfriend's phone. I knew the person to be a girl he works with and when I asked him about it he said it was just flirting and that I did it all the time. Before my baby I worked in a bar, ... (337 words)

Why does he reject me for sex but I never reject him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for nine months now. however with our sex life things have gone from having sex almost every other day to sex only on weekends and sometimes i want to have sex during the week but when i try to touch him or suggest it he ignores me or just ... (101 words)

Should I say something to this guy's girlfriend about what transpired between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a few years ago I was at a friend's birthday party. I was several weeks post-break up and very narrowly missed possible rape that evening. I was very shaken up. There was a friend who started comforting me - we talked through the night before this happened. We ended up ... (320 words)

Why did this happen in the classroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I was just sitting in class minding my own business and then this boy behind me was calling someone and he's friends with my friend that was sitting next to me and I thought he was calling her so I tapped her and told her he was calling her but then he goes "no you" as in me ... (128 words)

He left me before I could learn anything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm conflicted... I don't know what to do. One time, just one, I get mad for a foolish reason. He told me, " let's not talk anymore" and deleted me everywhere. I loved him. It just hurts to see how easily he let me go, away from his life. I thought people said yo... (218 words)

I want to hide that I am not a virgin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - i am going to marry after 5months and i want to hide that i m not virgin from my husband... (20 words)

The relationship is falling apart and I just feel that I was right all along

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This feels so tiring and I feel I have no strength to even carry on writing.. Some months back I wrote about my current long distance relationship. He, a soldier far abroad, .. I need the real talk here, as if you guys were my friends in real life... I have previously been... (1032 words)

I am comparing every man to my ex. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - About seven months ago, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me completely out of the blue. There were no warning signs whatsoever so it really rocked me. We had been living together for two years and were about to move into a new house and he said he just couldn't do it. ... (251 words)